OK, I recently found out I might be bi, but I'm way too scared to tell my mum. I told my friend who I completely trust not to tell anyone unless I said it was OK. She said it would be best if I didn't tell my mum until I was absolutely sure. But how do I find out? I don't know anyother lesbian/bi chicks and although I'm starting college in September that has a gay club and according to my brohter, laods of gay people, I still don't know what to do now, and I don't particualrly want my brother to know until I'm ready and he will be at the same college as me for my first year...any ideas? Oh, and I don't want to look at porn. First thing my mum said to me when I got the Internet in my room
Don't feel rushed to tell her, if you were 100% sure then maybe you should. You are going to college though and you will have a few years to explore yourself and grow then and get to know for sure.
Take its slow and easy. You are not sure yourself, so why cause confusion? You do that, when the time is right. KD
Thanks, I feel kinda bad, especially as she keeps asking me why I'm stressed, I hate keeping things from her
i dont blame you im in ur situation as well, its hard to get the courage and tell anyone especially parents well good luck
i'm in the same situation. everyone knows, except my father. i don't have the balls to tell him. I need to tell him before I leave for school though. i'm afraid he will hear from someone else, i'm surprised he hasn't already.
Well, when I told one of my friends that something was troubling me and I didn't know how to tell my mum, I didn't want to tell this friend at that poin, she suggested I take my mum out, like for a meal or something, to be away from everyone else to tell her...
