Ok ive NEVER gone down on a chick and havnt really done much with the girls but any way is there any good base rules to follow? Stay on the clit/don’t stay on the clit? [font="]I also have a pretty short tongue if that makes it worse. [/font]
Well, every woman has her particular likes and dislikes, but I'll try to give you some universal advice that can be used for most ladies. Okay, the clit. Touch it, lick it, suck it, flick it with your tongue. Do not neglect the love button. But, that doesn't mean you should jump right in there and start rubbing hard. You need to get her excited first. (Generally, that starts far from the genitals!) Kiss her, kiss her neck, massage her breasts, stroke her body, make her feel good! Then, head south... Some women like to be fingered during oral, some don't. Listen to her breathing and/or moaning. If she starts breathing heavier or moaning louder, she likes what you're doing. Change it up, don't keep doing the same thing over and over until she's ready to cum. Use lots of salvia, but not enough to drool all over the sheets. Be creative, use your lips, tongue and fingers all together at the same time. Create different sensations and she'll come running back for more. Don't be afraid to communicate during sex. Some ladies are vocal about what they want, and some, not so much. If you're not sure, ask her "Do you like when I do this? How about this?" Whatever you do, don't act like it's a chore or rush through it. She'll get little pleasure from that and think you're a jerk. Hope I was a little helpful... Good luck!
start slowly, tease, make her moist, the flick is good, but! move down and stick your tongue into her tight juicy twat. Slowly, move your tongue up surrounding her beautiful **** lips, swirl the tongue and move it up to her clit. Move fingers, palm up into her receptive twat until you feel something rough, (2 to 3 inches), As it swells put more pressure on it, moving your hand back and forth as you flick your tongue along her delicious, desirable clit. She will feel like she needs to pee, but she won't. When the clit is hard exert more hard pressure with your tongue, all the while stroking that spot in her pussy hard. When she convulses, you know you have done it right.
As submarine sailors say, "Dive!, dive!, dive!" I love the individual and personal advice you received from two sides of the coin. Follow them carefully, young man, and your life will be full of happy women. My only real advice is that you go first (very important) and don't require ANY return favors. Women think we do it all for a b/j or a h/j or a fast f***. Fool 'em into thinking that we're altruistic and they'll love you more. Do a good job and you'll be rewarded soon enough. Just don't come off as greedy!
