meaning of true love

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Desisrsmarter, Jul 26, 2006.

  1. Desisrsmarter

    Desisrsmarter Member

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    What is the meaning of true love?????????????
     
  2. Desisrsmarter

    Desisrsmarter Member

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    True love is forever



    desisrsmarter: im bak... hehe
    KooJMS: o great
    desisrsmarter: true love is 4ever? worng
    KooJMS: o yeah
    desisrsmarter: and ur in "true love with ....dont remember his name... so ill call him zach"
    KooJMS: no im not
    desisrsmarter: then???
    desisrsmarter: just there?
    KooJMS: we'll no junior high or high schooler is has true love there all to imitrue for it
    desisrsmarter: not all
    KooJMS: i beg to differ ever so much
    KooJMS: nobody goes out with sombody because they love them true love is perfect and takes a long time to develop
    desisrsmarter: one of ur favorite songs...check yes or no... the story behind it
    KooJMS: they werent in love as children but as they grew to kniw eachother they fell in love
    desisrsmarter: " do you love me? and if u do check yes or no" and since then they had loved each other
    desisrsmarter: 3rd grade?
    desisrsmarter: not even in jr high
    KooJMS: it wasn't true love though
    desisrsmarter: ....! dont debate against me
    KooJMS: there is a diffrence
    KooJMS: and i can debate about true love
    desisrsmarter: it was..... beacause they loved each other enoough to stay togher for ever....
    desisrsmarter: no one person can define the meaning of true love! It is different for all!
    KooJMS: yes but later the loved eachother enough they didn't marry in 3rd grade
    desisrsmarter: ofcourse they did not marry in third grade.... they still had school and such in their way
    desisrsmarter: marriage is not a sign of true love
    KooJMS: its one of them but still
    desisrsmarter: no....
    KooJMS: u wouldn't understand if u never experinced it
    desisrsmarter: exactly... and u havent... and i havent...
    desisrsmarter: and thus our debate ends
    desisrsmarter: with a tie
    KooJMS: i don't settle for ties on this
    KooJMS: amar and michell told me never to
    desisrsmarter: u told me that u personally cant define true love!
    KooJMS: amara*
    desisrsmarter: who r they
    KooJMS: no i said i can debate it
    desisrsmarter: u proved urself wrong!
    desisrsmarter: omg
    desisrsmarter: ur in a lost debate
    KooJMS: like i said u wouldn't understand
    desisrsmarter: wxample"KooJMS: u wouldn't understand if u never experinced it"
    KooJMS: i never said i could define it
    desisrsmarter: we'll no junior high or high schooler is has true love there all to imitrue for it
    desisrsmarter: and u fall in a high schooler catergory
    KooJMS: i havent not true love
    desisrsmarter: then u cant know what it is
    desisrsmarter: lost debate
    KooJMS: i know that its perfect
    KooJMS: that should be enough to know
    desisrsmarter: nothing in its state is perfect
    desisrsmarter: that is simple to know... it is called love
    desisrsmarter: no difference between normal and true love...
    KooJMS: it is the only thing in this world that is perfect
    desisrsmarter: :-D
    desisrsmarter: nothing is perfect
    KooJMS: and there is u can easily say to some one u love them
    KooJMS: but...
    desisrsmarter: no matter wat it is
    desisrsmarter: no u cant
    desisrsmarter: unless if u truly dont love them
    desisrsmarter: ....
    KooJMS: you can never honstly truly say that u truly love them unless u do and that is the diffrence
    desisrsmarter: if u talk that way.... i cud say " i love u " to u .... and it shud mean nothing right?
    desisrsmarter: this way.... i can say anything at all
    KooJMS: right
    desisrsmarter: and it shudnt affect u
    KooJMS: but u can never say u truly love some one casuly
    desisrsmarter: in that same way i cud also call u white trash/dumbass and it shud not affect u
    KooJMS: it wouldn't
    desisrsmarter: but u can...
    desisrsmarter: they r just words
    KooJMS: its a mental game
    KooJMS: but true love is physical
    desisrsmarter: love is not expressed by words...but by feeling
    desisrsmarter: brb
    desisrsmarter: think some more
    desisrsmarter: kkk im baqk
    desisrsmarter: in a debate like this none will ever win... because... love is defined... and true love is no different
    desisrsmarter: the only thing is that "true lovers face less obstacles" and broken lovers are broken because they cudnt face their extreme load of obstacles
    desisrsmarter: few ppl find real love or in ur words"true love" because thats how they r.... they r raised that way... to believe in only the purest of love
    desisrsmarter: in the way u tell it.... there are two types of love
    desisrsmarter: true love and -normal love
    desisrsmarter: wat im trying to say is that normal love is just a crush and true love is normal love
    desisrsmarter: or that crush is a really good friendship


    : i had to take care of my nephiew u haven't one
    KooJMS: won
    KooJMS: homer answer or i win
    desisrsmarter: ...
    KooJMS: as afamous poet once said"love...True love is a gift beyond a gift
    desisrsmarter: notice the first word..
    desisrsmarter: true is just an adjective
    KooJMS: as michael said though that who i love has passed on i know her to be the truest felling of my heart true love. Though i will miss her much she was my perfct companion because she truly loved me as i trul loved her
    KooJMS: Michael found it
    KooJMS: they were going to marry
    KooJMS: but a couple of days before the wedding she died
    desisrsmarter: micheal?
    KooJMS: you wouldn't know him
    desisrsmarter: anyway... do u not understand american lieratuure...
    desisrsmarter: ?
    KooJMS: but he taught me so much
    desisrsmarter: many people say that true love is their feeling
    KooJMS: much more then u learn in school
    desisrsmarter: but in the end they usually divide
    desisrsmarter: love is not for all
    KooJMS: i know it was true love for him because he gave some of it to me to experince a littile
    desisrsmarter: love is the feeling that u call"true love"
    KooJMS: a passion only understod by the one who holds its prefect brightness
    desisrsmarter: .... dont go poet on me
    KooJMS: no love is a word that means nothing near to true love
    KooJMS: in the english language true is a adj.
    desisrsmarter: that is because it has been degaraded to that
    KooJMS: but in the heart it has much more meaning
    desisrsmarter: "true is ony said by people who havent broken up in over long per of time...
    desisrsmarter: "love" is said by idiotic divored peeps
    KooJMS: when u have it u will see the diffrence
    KooJMS: and that is were i end this debate
    desisrsmarter: i said in the beginnig that love is not for all
    desisrsmarter: and it isnt for me
    desisrsmarter: it is a hassle not to be taken



    I kinda like her.... we're good freinds and had a good debate!!

    Im a proud nerd
     
  3. freespirit420

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    happiness, having someone to love you and who you can love gives you the best feeling ever..its the best drugh i swear!
     
  4. Gypsy_girl

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    I think it's different for everyone, depending on their experience, but I really think it's being able to love and accept each other, faults and all (as long as theiy're not distructive to either each other or as individuals), and give you room to have your own life (friends, goals, etc, basically where you love and support each other without being smothering, or controling, but without being a doormat and having enough selfrespect to tell them when you don't like something they're doing, and the maturity to work thorugh your issues. A healthy relationship, in other words.
     
  5. Deacon_Vata

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    Depends on the nature of the love. True spiritual love is unconditional and platonic, with no expectations or exceptions. Grace, you might say. True romantic love is the same, only less platonic :) - oh, provided it's reciprocated I should add. I am very much in love with someone, but she is not in love with me so everything we do together is completely platonic. And the spiritual love I feel for her transcends the romantic love, so we make pretty good friends, considering our lop-sided relationship... :)
     
  6. revolution_time

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    love is so amazing. as soon as you get a taste of it, your completly addicted. to me, it's giving your whole soul to someone else, with no fear what-so-ever.
     
  7. Treadge

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    Love suffers long and is kind; Love does not envy; Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek it's own, is not provokd, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things.
    Love never fails.
     
  8. Anastazija

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    Love is to feel the same, to dream the same to have one great wish - staying together forever!
     
  9. skidrowgirl

    skidrowgirl Yeah, like I care.

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    I'm new, so please forgive the long winded post.
    My friend Cyndi, a member here, knows I have a low opinion of men just a wee bit.LOL. My experiences haven't been so great.
    I was living with a man who I'd been seeing for three years, when he just up and decided he didn't want to be comitted.
    Would have been nice to know this before I wasted three years of my life with him. He did not want marriage or children, and I was perfectly fine with that. I never brought it up even once.
    He recently, within the last year, met a girl with a child from a previous relationship, and now they're getting married. He told me she wouldn't stop pressuring him to marry her after about three months of being together, so he finally gave in.
    Now, he is on this "father" kick. Nice.
    So, I guess if I had bothered to bring up marriage while we were together, then hounded him about it, maybe we would have gotten married. LOL. I don't know. Men confuse me.
    I know how paranoid they are about marriage, and I am too, but why do they break off 3 years with you, to later marry some girl who pressures them to death for marriage after only a few months?
    I'm pretty sure I'll stay single until I die. Dating is a joke these days and the men in my state have too much ego anyway.LOL.
     
  10. Foxes_Den

    Foxes_Den Outta here...

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    "True love" depends on what rubber ruler you're using. If another person's happiness is essential to your own, then that qualifies in my book.
     
  11. Foxes_Den

    Foxes_Den Outta here...

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    I'm sorry that you wasted three years on a guy who turned out to have no backbone. Three years is a fairly normal "make or break" point in a long-term relationship, and from the sound of it, yeah, he wasn't worth your time. Look back and see how he's doing three years from now. Odds are the gal he's with will have kicked him to the curb because he isn't strong enough for her. Irony is a powerful force, and sometimes having isn't as good as wanting. She wanted a husband more than a solid relationship. He wanted peace more than freedom. Now, they both got what they wanted, and it probably won't be what they want before long.

    And there are good men out there. You just have to check on a lot of lilypads to find the right one.

    BTW, long posts are fine so long as you have something worthwhile to say.
     

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