im a girl player

So is your sig.

And hey I don't mind having some fun poked at me, it really doesn't bother me in the least. ^_^ Hell half the time I poke fun at myself.

But ignorant people do.

 

I do remember reading that you are a gemini and so am I. We tend to get bored with guys fast, but LOVE attention...lol...I'm the same way. I hate it.

 

If she was a man, who would be criticizing her? You, Jester? I think not.

But, as she makes no bones about admitting, she's got a few problems.

Dietcoketree, start out simple. Go on casual dates without expectations of havig it go further. But try to limit yourself to three or so at a time, and keep weeding them out -- pick your favorite and then lose the other two as dates, but not necessarily as friends. Then pick up two more and keep the door revolving.

Heh heh heh ... that might sound evil in itself, but as ling as everyone knows the score from the beginning, it might be less harmful than keeping them ALL.

 

there seems to be disagreements everywhere i post. i wish that was a good characteristic to possess...

anyways, i do appriciate you guy's input. hopefully ill come to my senses and stop hoarding all the sweet guys and turning them into asses very soon.

just as soon as i figure out which one of three guys i like the most :/

 

true.... maybe thats why i am the way i am; there was a time when i gave my ALL into the hope that a guy would treat me right.

so tell me, jester, will there ever be a guy that will be there and not break my heart? you could say 'im too young to find him now,' but really- does it ever end??

 

its funny your 19. ive dated guys older than you.

i forget that your only 19 because you just have such a strong opinion and stuff to say all the time. good thing, im complimenting you, so dont freak on me

 

dear lord im not hitting on you. when i read your reply to, "does it ever end?" i was thinking of you as an older more experienced man, not a 19 year old guy. its nice how your quick to accept a compliment though.

its also intersesting how you talk down to me, "giggle like you little girls do" or whatever you said.. two years isnt that much of a differnce. but if it makes you feel more macho, whatever.

 

The little boy thing came from you calling me a jerk.
But see you just keep name calling and yes are still a little boy with a sword.
BTW I am lakota sioux a REAL INDIAN!
Stoned yes-Senile Not yet!
Now go play with that Sword Little boy!
I also have a feeling that sword is short and very dull for such a young man.

 

I recommend dating only gay guys... either guys who are outwardly gay, or are obviously gay but don't know it yet... because chances are, you're really damaging the guys you are 'seeing'. Or, alternatively, keep seeing them while mentioning about a hundred times how great it is to have a FRIEND, and keep saying 'that's what FRIENDS do' or something along those lines. He'll probably never speak to you again, but it's a whole lot better than leading him on and then not entering a relationship for no reason, because then he will hate you.

I don't know these guys, but if they're not realizing it's not going anywhere when there hasn't been any physical contact, then chances are they're inexperienced, self-conscious, naive, immature... whatever. Anyway, you can content yourself with the fact they were probably just trying to fuck you... unless they were actually looking for a committed relationship, in which case you're a terrible person.

As an experiment, I think you should find some guy who won't think it's a big deal if you break up with him... because he was only trying to fuck you anyway, and he can always find some other girl for that. Maybe that's what you like.

 

Real Native Americans don't insult other people on an online forum, and then get all pissed off when other people take offense and insult them back. Don't forget Sir Sioux, you were the first one here to lose your manners and lash out on someone.

And in case you couldn't tell, the name calling was a joke, it was made as a mockery of you -- but apparently you can't even realized when someone is poking some satirical fun at your childish name-calling by responding with more of the same. Do you even know what satire is?

And is "little boy" the best you can come up with? I'm sure if you think real hard (or use a thesaurus) you could come up with something just a little more striking.

Anyhow, yes, the sword is dull, because it's a show sword, it's not meant for any sort of battle. You didn't assume it was, did you?



Moving on: InsaneJester, you've got a really good outlook on relationships, and for that I applaud you.

 

I need something to drink.

 

...

*looks around all innocently*

 

Waht, "real Native Americans" dont get upset, arent prone to emotional changes/moodswings/joking around (considering the lameness o fthe insult being discussed, Im assuming its just a joke)?


Anyways, to the OP. When youre not around these guys, stop and thinkg: do you really like them? Do you really find them interesting in a more-than-friends way? Because if not, call and cancel the date rather than lead them on. Or email/text them, wahtever, ending it somehow is bettter than leading them on repeatedly. You have to make yourself stop and really think about the relationship towards its start... is it worth going out with these guys when you might be actually hurting them, unless youre genuinely into tehm

 

Hey, Allonymph... let's play a game.

 

Yes, Allonym, it's just a joke ... lol ... that's the whole enchilada of my post, at this point ...

Anyway ... here, Lib, have a Captain and Coke ...

 

Anybody love that movie, "The Crow"?
There's a line where the bad guy says " A boy and his bird, how touching"
isnt that fucking awesome!

 

DietCoke- eh girl you with all ur problems.... You know what... i'd go on a date with u, and u'd never forget that date... its not Illinois guys.. Its Canadian-European guys... sexy/smart/athletic.... eh too bad you live so far from me...

Must be some stupid , super nice pussy guys u dated with .. or maybe problem is just YOU.