I am 33 have been with my partner for 13 years unknown to me she has been unhappy for a while (there is nobody else involved), all i have done is neglect her (understatment if i am not working, playing football or doing odd jobs).I have never been on holiday with her due to the fact i was in a helicopter crash and am scared of flying. I really do love her , she has moved out and i think she wont see me because she still has feelings for me we are going to sell the house which is a shame spent a fortune on it , i think (i hope deep down she still has feelings for me i would do anythiny to win her back,(sorry for sounding desprate i am she is my soul mate)could any nice people out there give me some good advice thank you if you if you can.
tell her how much you really do love her and that you just needed to lose her in order to realise it. If she likes the outdoors you should go camping or something with her. go hiking and see some breathtaking scenery. you don't need to fly in order to travel.
You don't even need to travel in order to be on holiday. Just be with her. Even for just fifteen minutes a day, even if neither of you is saying or doing anything. Spend some time just gazing into her eyes and touching her...Of course, this is for when you actually get back together with her. As for how you're gonna go about doing that, I honestly do not know. I hope it all works out for you both.
