i like her, but dont know what to do

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by painfulheart, Aug 2, 2006.

  1. painfulheart

    painfulheart Member

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    Thng is its complicated, i reallly like this girl
    *we are both in same uni course
    *we had time to talk last semster, now we dont
    *she has a boyfriend (and in no way do i intend to break them up)
    *since our break ive been avoiding her, eyes and contact (dunno what to do)
    *ive seen her looking at me trying to catch my eye, she even came over to say hi to me today

    I know i cant have a relationship with her (atm) what i thinks wrong is that i miss our friendship cos my feelings for her are stoping me being a friend (sorta like i dont want to ruin a relationship chance in future)

    What i want to do is say hey, lets sit and talk for a few hours (even if others are around) but i cant (i feel like she may think i wanna be more than friends atm) i do, but wont cos of bf

    Im quite sure she knows i have a crush, and im extremely sure she likes me (friend) and maybe is a little interested

    i want to do it all face 2 face, no real question, please say what you would do if u were me.
     
  2. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    STOP Over thinking and just be her friend-if it goes beyond that then that's kool.
    Just because a person is in a relationship doesn't mean they can't sit and talk with you. If that's a problem for her Boy Friend then you can count on them breaking up anyway.
    While all this is going on just be the BEST at WHO you are and if she still stays with him then you have a great friend.
     
  3. PsyGrunge

    PsyGrunge Full Fractal Force

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    if she's out of bounds then don't go fucking with and just chill as friends. if you did tell her how you felt, then there's a big chance you'll both feel awkward around each other in the future if she doesn't feel the same. watch "the wedding singer".
     
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