Has this ever hapend to you?!?

Because seeing some people cry really probes that noone does.

 

Does it matter if me and that person are still together.I dont think there is any rule saying you have to wrtie about someone your with.How did I make him sound like an asshole in the second post,tell me .I never said anything about him not caring about me either.

 

"He cried about stupid shit like a sissy", "He was bragging to people about how he stood up for me against this BIG huge guy" Makes him sound like "less of a man" or an asshole to me...

I'm just saying, you make him sound like it was BAD for him to be sensitive. Maybe he cried about stuff that was important to him...maybe it didn't seem important to you, so what?

I just feel like this thread was created simply to diss him...not to actually have a discussion about men who aren't arrogant and egotistical.

And I never said he didn't care about you either.

Men who cry...I will repeat...aren't necessarily boys. They have feelings and they care about things. It bugs me to hear people say that "real men don't cry"...like some of the men that posted in this thread...and what you inferred as well...

It's my opinion though...so whatever

 

How did I in anyway bash him?All i said was he acted more like a female in our relationship,hows that bashing him?All I asked was if anyone else has been in the same situation as me.Why are you making it into something so much bigger then what it really is.I didnt start this forum to talk about how he wasnt what i wanted him to be ,so why are you implying that?Second of all i dont like men who figh all the time,my father was that way and I hated it so i wouldnt want my boyfriend to act like it .I mean all I wrote was that he watched someone touch my chest i mean did i didnt say i was outraged by him not doing anythign, but it would of been nice for him to say something like "Hey get your hand off my girlfriends chest".

 

I'm not making a big deal of it...I'm replying to those who replied to my posts...

You said...like I quoted you in the last post I wrote: "He cried about stupid shit like a sissy"...that's not bashing...Hmmm...OK

 

.Yep you got me I started this thread becuase I wanted to make fun of him...not.Yeah I stand by what I said because he did cry like a sissy about things that really didnt matter,and yeah it was stupid of him to say that he beat up some guy he nevr even touched.The reason why he cried was becuase he started a fight and got his ass kicked

 

That's what it seemed like to me...when I first read your replies. That may not have been your intention, but that's how it came off.

No one is perfect...I don't know him...I don't really care...I'm just saying...just because guys cry doesn't mean he's less of a man...that was the basis behind all of my posts. Take it how you want.

 

annie i love you...

 

Will you have my babies?

 

hah no I haven't. That woulda been time for me to go home time. maybe look for different traits? I had a guy ask me to hold him and it tripped me out...I ;aughed at him ): I know that's horrible. but maybe write a list of traits more dominant men overtly display and go for them instead?

 

i've been in one of those before...
i really, really, really need a masculine guy. i need a character bigger than myself. i need to feel subordinate to some degree.
wrong wrong wrong? oh well.

i have felt exactly that...like i am wearing the pants. i think i was just too big a presence.
to make up for his lack of concern towards anything, i found myself always taking charge and calling the shots. if didn't, no one did! this was really damaging.

i need men with strong character...i can be quite dominant, so i need it balanced out. i am a much nicer person when i am not the dominant figure.

 

It's called sarcasm.

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Either way, fairydust, what you like or don't like - diss or don't diss - is your prerogative.

If you've come here to vent about men with no balls, it's just as valid as any other reason for frustration in a relationship. It does irk me, however, when people are not upfront with their partners and expect them to mindread. And if you can't stand a man who doesn't wear the pants, don't have him. Live and learn, talk about it too.

 

Well, here's how I see it. There are different types in the world, and we are what we naturally are. He can't change his nature. I'm a "manly man" so I've always been the take charge type. I can't be anything else; we're all formed by our genes and our environment at a young age. If you have questions about his role...maybe you should just find someone that's a better "fit"