Recently ive been going out with this girl, and the sex is great. But the times when she wants to just give me head, I am unable to climax and cum. I dont know what the deal is? I love getting a blowjob, but I can't figure out why I can't cum.
Dude, If getting head is really high on you list of priorities, then have her practice, practice, practice. I had many girlfriends and NONE of them could get me to cum by giving me head. I just figured it was me, not them. When I was 21 I got married and even my wife couldn't make me cum giving me head. So I thought, Oh well. She always did it as foreply. Then one day about 6 sears after we were married, it happened. She did it, made me cum. I was married to her for over 25 years and she never got to where she could make me cum that often with a BJ, I would say that maybe one out of twenty times. I guess some guys just aren't built to receive head, I don't know.
Some people just dont get the right stimulation during oral to orgasm. Show her how you masturbate, and see if maybe her using a firmer/rougher touch helps, and reassure her that it isnt that shes doing a bad job because if shes like most chicks sehll beat herself up over it and eventually wanna stop doing it because she cant make you cum.
Depends what your objective is here, but you could just go with the flow. Some women like it when a guy can't orgasm from oral because it eliminates their revulsion to having a mouthful of semen (yes there are alternatives to copping a mouthful when giving head, but I'm referring only to *perceptions*). I've seen plenty of women who really weren't into giving oral turn into absolute cock-mad sluts (which I mean in the nicest and most playful sense of the term ) simply because the pressure was off, so to speak.
I've known a few guys who absolutely love getting head but they rarely ever get off. I guess it's just a personal thing.
Holy Sex and hex! I get off just thinking about a woman's mouth down there. No failures here, but I've talked to older guys who say age slows the reaction down and they help it along with their hand. BTW Deacon, lets quit talking about "their revulsion to having a mouthful of semen." Oral probably preceded intercourse, (but after masturbation) in the history of sexual practices. A mouthful of semen or vaginal fluid is no worse than a mouthful of caviar! Same ingredients. Also everyone must be told that to be successful in love, oral is a must. To those who think they have a super sex life without, think how much better with real lip-likin' intimacy! Don Juan knew!!! So did his women! You betcha.
Receiving oral sex has never made me climax, but I love it. I wonder if gender plays much of a role in this because its not that its not exciting because it is, but it can't push me over the edge.
