Okay, imagine this. You hook up with a semi-friend or casual acquaintence with whom you've hung out a few times and have found interesting. Neither of you want a relationship -- even though neither has come right out and said so, she knows you don't, and you've seen enough about her to know she's cool and casual too. She calls you the next day, casually, as if nothing has happened. Maybe she lets you know about a party next week, or wants to know if you're going to be hanging out with mutual friends again the upcoming weekend -- but makes no insinutation of asking for a "date." Be honest! Do you still automatically assume she has taken the wrong idea, and wants or expects something more (ie, a dreaded RELATIONSHIP)?
Yes. In anythng other than a "normal" relationship (and even in most "normaL" ones), things/intentions should be clearly stated. But especially in relatinships where things dont fall down the "standard" path of date, kiss, monogamy, oral, sex, engagement etc etc etc
Honest, gut-level, unrehearsed answer: no. It would take a great deal 'needier' action to suggest anything more than a casual catch-up - and that's without going into what would be so 'dreaded' about a relationship...
Why? I'm curious, what would bring you to that assumption? Sometimes things don't happen so neatly ... the heat of the moment and all. :& I'm just making fun of guys who get scared about things like that ...
Yea, the thought would cross my mind that u might be looking for someting else.. but i wouldnt be so quick to pass me judgment . I mean it is possible you called the night after the hook to just chill or what not...
Of course the only way to solve this problem is to sit down privatly witht he person in question and tell them what your intentions are. It does not sound like she wants a relationship, because that may be something she would do with or wihtout the encounter. Just talk to her.
Geez, you would think two people might be able to openly talk about their goals and desires for that specific relationship... I wouldn't assume shit until all the cards are laid on the table. But I never play guess games anyway. They're exasperating and I got no time...
