ok i've been dating this guy (well if you can call it dating) its been 2 months and i've only seen him 3 times and if im lucky he'll call me once a week (he blames it on working, he only works twice a week) i just dont know wat to do if i should just leave him or try to make it work i mean hes a great guy and i really like him but i cant stand how he never calls and never comes down to see me can someone help?
Doesn't sound like hes into you that much. You have only seen him 3 times in 2 months which isn't exactly what someone would do if they liked you. Find someone who will see you and talk to you, I mean he can;t be that great if he doesn't hardly call you or see you. You deserve better treatment then that.
i concur with the first poster. if he doesn't put as much effort into the relationship as you do, it's obvious that he isn't into it that much. if he is, he has a funny way of showing it. i would just talk to him and tell him that if you're in a relationship with someone, you expect them to give as much as you give them - an equal partnership with equal effort. in your position, i'd break up with him; you are young yet, and there will be plenty of guys to meet before you'll end up with someone right for you...so, instead of tying yourself down to a guy who isn't giving as much effort, just be single and have fun with life, until someone better comes along, someone worth the effort.
A relationship of any kind requires communication and if it were me, I would want to see someone I'm dating more than 3 times in a 2 month period and would want to talk more than once a week.. You should let him know how you're feeling about it and see how it goes from there.. You'd think that if he's wanting to be with you in the same sense you are he'd be putting more effort into it.. Btw, some men are clumsy as hell and don't know how to act around someone they love/care about so they come across as having a foot in their mouth and pretty careless. I'm in love with someone many, MANY miles away from me and I call him A LOT just to let him know I love and miss him (even if it's a 5 minute conversation, which sometimes it is).. He does the same as well.
Yeah I agree with the others. It doesn't sound like he's that interested but before giving up, I'd tlak to him and see if any changes are made. If they're aren't any soon, then I'd move on. You deserve better. A relationship can't survive like that, sounds a bit one-sided.
Maybe it's not in the number of times you two hook up. The misunderstanding is in how you've interpreted the relationship. Are you sure you BOTH mutually started off on the same page? He could be thinking it's just a fling or like a sidedish. It doesn't sound like you're the only woman in the picture either.
Look, to be honest it doesn't sound like he's into you that much, and thats some relationship really. What I would do is, I would say "Listen, I am leaving cause you don't really seem to be interested in me, I mean, I've only seen you 3 times and you hardly call". You can do better than that!
