is it slutty?

me and a guy friend had sex the first time last night
we dated a few years ago and sometimes we make out
but last night was the first time we had sex
he was the second guy i've been with
and i dont know does it make me a slut if i have sex with a friend?

 

No - not hardly.

 

Nah--just human.

 

you're in the right thread hun, you should realize, of course, that having sex with someone you love is better, but that doesn't mean you have to be. i think that everyone who wouldn't have sex with a friend just cause they thought it would make them a slut are the real fools.

 

Theres no such thing as a slut, just different lifestyles!

 

no way! I fuck x b/fs sometimes and that doesn't make me a slut. In my eyes a slut is someone who says that they aare in a monogamous relationship, but fucks people behind the person's that they are with back.

 

I don't think so.. So you wanted to have sex, big deal.. People are going to think whatever they want anyway so you may as well do what you please.

 

not at all.

 

Slut is just a word. You're still you.

 

It depends on the circumstances.

Say you haven't seen this guy for two years, you now meet him in a bar, and 2 minutes after you've said your helloes, you're sucking his cock in the men's room - then it would be rather slutty.

But you say you meet this guy on and off, so you have some kind of relationship with him. That's of course very different.

 

Sounds rather hot, as well.

 

My thought is your only a slut if you think you are. Other peoples opinions don't matter.

 

How can you be positive w/o Knowing
what their Relationship was/is?

*curious*

 

not at all chick. dont even think that ok

 

i would have to say no

 

Hence, slutty.

 

hot = slutty?

 

Dont know about slutty, but Demis damn hot!!

 

So you had sex with someone you've known (relatively intimately) for years. It was the second time you ever had sex, and now you're worried that you might be a slut.

All good signs that you are not one.

 

The second guy you've been with and you think you're slutty? Nah.
You didn't 'just meet' the guy. So, I'd say you're pretty in-the-clear of being a slut.