Asexual ?someone explain please

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by HatEd, Aug 6, 2006.

  1. HatEd

    HatEd Member

    Messages:
    174
    Likes Received:
    0
    Yea I don't know what the deal with me is.I am attracted to girls but the secound I hookup with them I get sick.It doesn't turn me on.I'm not into guys ethir. I have been in relationships and had sex and whatever.But I don't like it. The only reason I sleep with girls is to make them feel better.I basicly like everyone I know as a friend.I think I have felt love before but it wasn't a big deal to me. I'll sleep with a girl so she won't feel down.But the only reason I do is is so I'll have a friend.I have felt love but even the way someone should like love there mom and dad and family.I know they love me but I feel nothing.Is there something wrong with me ?
     
  2. okeefe

    okeefe :>

    Messages:
    140
    Likes Received:
    0
    No, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, especially if it feels natural to you. I know many people who have little or no interest in sex. One of my best friends is a virgin, and she's 33. But it might make you feel bad if you continue to have sex when you don't want to. Just relax into how you feel, be honest with others about your interest or lack thereof, and maybe one day someone will come along and knock your socks off and you'll think, "So this is what all the fuss is about!!"
     
  3. Katie's Ghost

    Katie's Ghost Member

    Messages:
    126
    Likes Received:
    0
    http://www.asexualpals.com
    sorry couldn't resist

    Quite honestly, I find it a bit abnormal, someone your age usually has very strong desires. I would consider consultation if it doesn't get better (I take it that you don't have any sexual desires at all...it's not just that you aren't attracted to the girls you have been with, right?).

    There are many undiagnosed illnesses the public has still little knowledge when it comes to mental/development disorders.

    However, if doesn't bother you much and your cool with it, you should really take a look at that site above.
     
  4. SG69

    SG69 Member

    Messages:
    769
    Likes Received:
    8
    Sounds like you're celibus (however you spell it).
     
  5. Insomniac_Junkie

    Insomniac_Junkie Member

    Messages:
    443
    Likes Received:
    3
    You mean celibate? anyway, hatEd do you masturbate about women? often??
     
  6. jonJon

    jonJon Member

    Messages:
    26
    Likes Received:
    0
    i have a friend that claims he is asexual... when he followed me and my family to our summer place, my mother thought he was gay...
     
  7. wolfie65

    wolfie65 Member

    Messages:
    206
    Likes Received:
    2
    Everyone thinks a guy is gay if he's not out fcuking everything in a skirt.
    Well I have news for those people that think that! It is entirely possible
    to go through life without sex and not be gay! (or a priest or a monk)
     
  8. Insomniac_Junkie

    Insomniac_Junkie Member

    Messages:
    443
    Likes Received:
    3
    I don't recall anyone saying that? (I'm sorry I'm to lazt to scroll up) :rolleyes:
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice