do you find bigger guys attractive?

Thanks!

 

My man is built like Buddha, he's my snuggle bear and I love him to death. He is the first "fat man" that I've ever been attracted to and I love him like I've loved no other man in my life. Before him, I only dated body builder types. It is all about the personality in and out of the bedroom. Make me laugh at life, myself, you, the world and you've got me in the palm of your hand and I honestly believe that's true for most women.

 

My fiance is probably around 350, if that answers your question. But, he's built like a tank -- he's got a significant gut, but he's tall and big boned with quite a bit of muscle under the fat (his calfs, which are not exactly a place people tend to store much fat, are as big around as my thigh).

Ideally, I hope he will lose the gut someday. But he will never be a small man. As in, he would look sickly at under 250.

And, obviously, I find his build, even with the gut, far sexier than some skinny dude with a waist smaller than mine!

 

Thanks for the clarification. I hadn't replied because I honestly wasn't sure what my opinion was. No, I wouldn't like a very "big" guy but at the same time, I've seen very meaty men and there seemed to be a more or less equiv. ratio of fat and muscle. That was hot.

I don't find skinny, lanky men very attractive, on a strictly aesthetic level.

 

i honestly dont like being with smaller built men...... i like guys with more to them...... its just a personal preference.......

 

Well Im 5'11 and 13 stone.
I think some girls are likely to have more of a problem with lack of size than with it.
( and I didnt mean the trouser department lol)

I find some tall girls say 5'10 or above tend to change initial opinions and express more interest when they find out about someof my prev jobs and the fact Ive done 20 years martial arts.

Sort of like them f changing from thinking to themselves
"my last boyfriend was 6'6 so this guys maybe not tough
enough"
changing to "yes he is a real man"

I used to think "fuck isnt that shallow of them"
Nowadays , Im like "yeah whatever another tiresome part of the game , now I say this"

Anyone else think "fuck thats shallow" or are compatibility factors just fixed and not something to question??
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I dont think being really big will have a neagtive effect( only nominally)
Fatness might lessen someones chances Id be sure of tho

 

Well, yes, it is shallow because women here are invited to talk about it in the aesthetic sense, removed from emotion or any real analysis of why they like what they like. People here aren't going to give you their life story. They just answer the question and if their love of their life happens to be a certain weight, then they have that in there too.

Generally speaking, it is shallow but so are a man's preference of a woman's body type. This is a whole other topic.

 

honestly? even if i dont think a guy is attractive, the more i get to know him the more attractive he becomes to me. that is, if i like what i get to know. if that makes sense.

okay, i'll put it this way; most girls fall in love with the guy underneath the body. im not just being fake or whatever, thats the truth.

 

what the hell is 13 stone?

 

14 pounds in a stone.
So its 180 something pounds.

Imperial weights and measures.
We invented it!; )

Fair comments above from you all re my shallowness comment.
Im just in a bad mood today
No offence intended to anyone.

 

I prefer guys on the heavier side... I like the teddy bear types and snuggling with bones just doesn't do it for me. My friends can be skinny or fat and I don't notice, but as far as physical attraction, guys with some (or even a significant amount) of meat on their bones catch my eye.

 

the few fat boyfriends I ever had were really good in bed. They took the time to do whatever it took to make me feel good. The jocks with their really nice bodies generally were only into themselves, and could have cared less whether I got mine or not. This is just a generalization, based on my own personal experiences and nothing more than that. I've heard guys say the same thing about fat chicks, so maybe there's something to it. But I'll be honest, I do prefer skinny dudes, personally. I'm built on a tiny frame, and am very intimidated by bulk. Tall is okay, but I don't want to feel like I'm going to be squashed like a bug in bed... 180 isn't fat, unless you have no muscle tone or are really short. 250, 300 lbs, that's fat.

Musikero, I've seen your pic in your sig and never thought of you as plump until you said it in this thread. I think you're cute, too.

 

If asked what type of body frame I generally find attractive, I say my type is usally tall and slim. That being said, my bf is not tall, nor is he slim, and yet I think he's the hottest thing ever! I don't find the extra weight unattractive at all, I think it makes him like a big strong teddy bear
Confidence and personality have a lot to do with it and go a LONG way. They play a big role in how attractive someone is to me. If a guy has warm, sweet eyes and a good sense of humor, he is much more attractive to me.
However, I would be turned off by someone that is severely overweight, because to me, in general that shows an unhealthy lifestyle, a trait that I find unattractive.

 

hahaha, you sound like an idiot... you probably couldn't get a girl even if you looked like Johny Deep... Stop being such a selfpityful sore ass... Girls like what girls like...

Anyways on topic, there are lots of shallow girls... but who'd want one of those anyways? If you get to know a girl, she most probably won't care what you look like...

 

*blushes*