Hey gals. I got a little story to tell and I need help with some thoughts or inputs. Well I've been with my gf for about 5 months now and she was a virgin when I met her. We both love each other very much and we already talk about what were doing together in the future, romantically asking her to marry me n shit. Well I'm not the best when it comes to asking about sexual things she'd like to do unless were on the subject....And the one I'm about to ask is a hard topic to just 'get up on.' Well here it goes, I've always wanted to lick / eat / whatever you want to call it / her pussy. I've always been wanting to and just recently I was like, I need to get on the subject. So I said, is there anything you wouldn't do for me and she said 'i am willing to do anything for you' and she said is there anything your not willing to do for me? So I thought...Hmmmm. I'd do anything for you. So I was thinking, hmmmm not a good plan, ahh here we go. "I'm so glad your not the girl that expects guys to give there women head." And she says "Why'd you say that all of a sudden?" "My friend told me about his GF expecting him to do it." "I wouldn't really want you to" *She said it in a we never really talked about it but sugar me up and here we go* and I said to her later that night when she forgot this: "I bet I could beat you in volleyball" "Austin, you know you could never beat me." "I'm so sure, I'll bet you I'd win. "O okay, what are you betting?" "If I loose, then I have to give you some head (I said it in nicer language) and if I win, were going to just go to the closest place (Like 20 feet) and get into a spot where no one is and just fuck right there." She agreed and I plan on loosing on purpose.... THE INPUTS I need are this: A: Does it really bring pleasure to you all? B:What areas should I work on first? Like would it be the same as if I'm having sex in a way? C:Any suggestions that will help me out D: Any other way to approach here after she woops my ass in some volleyball Thanks for taking the time to read it and have a nice day.
I really have to be in the mood for oral sex to receive it. There are days when I just don't want it... But it is usually the best possible foreplay for me. However, I don't know if she has ever experienced oral sex or not, but it can be an uncomfortable thing to approach if you haven't. Before I ever had experienced it, I was a bit self concious of my man going down there with his face and all, and it just made me feel awkward. But once you become comfortable with it, and more comfortable with your partner, it's much more pleasurable. All women are different in terms of what pleasures them most, but I tend to like it when my man focuses on my clitoris. And, it doesn't really matter HOW he approaches it, as long as he pays special attention to my clitoris. I would say though, to be careful not to be too rough with it, around the clitoral region, because it gets sensitive and can end up being more painful than enjoyable. I don't like it when he flicks his tongue on it, that usually hurts. To begin with it's okay, but if it has already been stimulated, it's not a good idea. I know that guys always seem so worried about whether or not their lady will enjoy their "skills" but the less you concentrate on it the better. If you're thinking about it too much, it's going to be less comfortable for both you and her. Just relax and go with the flow. You should be just fine Good luck
I love oral, and Id be a bit offended if my guy was all "Im so glad you dontn expect/want me to go down on you".... Id be all whaaaat? Oral is awesome, I dont orgasm through intercourse so its really the only way for a partner to get me off intentionally. so A:Yes, its one of the best ways to bring me pleasure B:Start slow, dont go for the clit rigth away. Kiss her thighs, her labia, her mound. But do end up working her clit, unless shes too sensitive for direct stimultion (some gals are) C:If she starts moaning louder when you do something different, dont stop! Dont start a motion you cant continue for at least a few seconds. D: How oral has usually gone for me: makeout, pull shirts off, makeout some more, pull pants off, guy kisses down my body and ends up between my legs. Sortof seems like the norm.
OP is the best. But, don't just say "I'm going to eat you now" just sneak it in. It'd be kinda weird if she KNEW you were going to do it. That's how I'd feel anyway.
Receiving oral sex does nothing for me. Often it's a turn off. With his face all the way down there with some peevish, "gentle" ministrations? Even with fingerwork, it's rather mild. Puhleeze. Give me something harder.
oral sex is great I love to see my partner shake. Go slowly; kiss her much on the mouth, and neck and down the breast. Go slow below that move your tongue around teasing her. Know where the clit is; go slowly at first, then lightly flick your tongue quickly over it. When she is real wet slip your fingers into her pussy, and feel for her g-spot. Stroke it softly first, but once it is ready you must be a bit rough. As the clit hardens, must be rougher there too. Once she has had one g-spot orasm, you have a welcome to do her orally, from now to forever.
Ok so let me get this straight, you really want to eat her out but you are acting as if you do not and when you lose volleyball your punishment is going down on her??? Good god man, don't act like her pussy is the devil and you don't want to get anywhere near it. If she has never had anyone go down on her before and you are acting as if it's the last thing in the world you want to do I can only imagine this girl is going to be a little uncomfortable with the situation. Get rid of the volleyball plan. Take her somewhere where she is comfortable and do whatever it is you do to get her hot and then just go with it. Make her feel like her body is the only thing in the world you want.
everybody, I mean absolutely EVERYBODY has different things they like and things that abslutely turn them off. And sometimes these things even change for an individual over time. The key is to TALK about it. yeah it's awkward to bring it up. but your relationship will be better and stronger if you both feel safe talking about sex and emotions. You're early in the relationship, the time to start practicing is right now. Feel free to use my posting as a was to get talking. Or at least talking about talking... and laying out ground rules. Good communication is very sexy.
Len2000 has got it going on!!!! Girls I been with woulda jumped out of bed along time ago if I acted like I really didnt want to!! Take your time..talk to her during..WORSHIP her body....
