Hi all. lol. I was just wondering what I should do. You see, I love my boyfriend. We have been dating for a while, and I've fallen in love with him. But...I think I might be bi, and I want to make sure of it, so the only way is to date a chick. But my boyfriend is kinda weary about that cuz he thinks that dating a chick is the same as dating a guy. I mean, I understand what he's talking about, but...the only way I can know for sure is if I test it out. lol. So yeah...I was going to date a girl and my boyfriend at the same time. But...I feel bad cuz I've known my boyfriend way longer. But I have a major physical attraction to a girl, so I'm stuck here all confused. What should I do??
Wiether its a girl or a guy you date behind his back its still cheating. Don't date the girl its not going to be good for your relationship unless your boyfriend is open to that. But do whats in your heart what you think is right. If you love your boyfriend why would you date someone else? (you might get a better response in the gay section)
It would be cheating no matter the sex of the person you cheat with. And you can know if you are bi or not without having to date a chick. What you should do is explain all of your feelings to your boyfriend, split up and allow for him to date other girls while you try to "find yourself" and if it is meant to be with your boyfriend, you will one day find your way back together. If not, then you should have some other answers at least. But just weigh whether or not this is really that important to you. What if you date this chick, and realize that you are in fact not bi after all and you want to get back with your boyfriend, but he has moved on?
I think you can love someone and still be attracted to someone else. It happens. Yes, it would be cheating no matter if it was with a male or a female. No, you do not have to date a girl to find out if you are bisexual or not. Just talk it over with your boyfriend. Tell him what is going on. If he has a spasm, he is probably not worth your time and you can leave him. If he is cool with the idea, go forth and see what you can see -- you might be able to have an open relationship ...
It's only cheating if your boyfriend isn't okay with it or isn't aware of it. Otherwise it's an open relationship.
Take them both out for a night together. I think by Sunrise you will not be on here asking this anymore.
Or a polymaorous one. Anyways, if hes not 100% cool with it I wouldnt go for it. I mean, how woudl you feel if he started dating someone else (regardless of their gender). Eitehr find someone whos ok with polyamory/open relationships, or keep your hands to yourself an dhim.
