omg. i dont know what to do

my first actual boyfriend just broke up with me. i was with him for a year and a half, we had our entire future planned out. and he just had another girl call me and tell me they were getting married and she doesn't want me to call him anymore. i can't believe that happened.

 

that sounds tuff. i send u my condolences man. u just have to know that u'll eventually feel better.

 

And how old are you?

 

17. i know, i know, i still have the rest of my life. that's not what matters right now.

 

Teenagers are funny.


You'll get over it...and you'll move on to the next piece of meat. And it's OK, because you are young and resilient.

Consider yourself lucky you didn't get married to that yellow-bellied dirtbag.

 

that's just insane... i agree with dancerannie

and time REALLY DOES heal all wounds.. you'll get over him.

 

so he broke up with you, or another girl tried to break you two up via proxy...you shoudl try talking to him about it..

 

Good point dangermoose, check with your bf first. If it is true that he got another girl to call, do you really want someone like that? He isn't much of a man IMO.
Time heals

 

Oh bs about the teenage crap. The girl's already feeling bad and she hasn't sprouted off long assumptions or presumptions. No need to completely downplay her shitty feeling.

It's that attitude that makes youth want to grow up too quickly. We're forever telling them that what they feel isn't valid, they'll grow out of it, or it doesn't matter because they bounce back faster. Crock.

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It is always a bit strange re-emerging into singledom after a long term relationship. It's like you have to rediscover how to enjoy freedom again. Give yourself time to rediscover yourself. For now, just give your time to let it sink in and try to stay with family and friends whom you know will be there for you during this time. All the best.

 

That's your opinion.

 

^^we know this because she indeed made the post herself. by the way, this is just my opinion.

 

I'm just saying, it's not a fact...it's her opinion on this.

What is the girl supposed to do? Dwell on it? Frankly, she's too young to sit around and feel bad about it. That's what old women with baggage do.

 

we've all been there hunny, i've been dumped in almost the exact same manner. life goes on. it hurts for awhile then you get over it. simple really. just dont push your feelings inside. let them out it a positive way. for example, i like to draw or take a walk. do whatever works for you. good luck and i wish you all the love in the world

 

he broke up with me, and told me to call back later if i wanted to talk about it bc he was busy. 2 hrs later, i called him and no one answered. then she called, from his house, and said she felt bad that i keep trying to get in contact with her fiance, and she said she would really appreciate if i stopped calling bc it hurts her feelings that i call. i don't think she was aware that he was dating me.... i know life goes on, but the last time i saw him, i wish i wouldv'e know it would be the last time. i know, it doesn't sound like he broke up with me, it sounds like he died, but he kind of did. he kind of never existed, not as the person i thought he was. and it sucks. i lost my virginity to him. which was stupid i know, but still...

 

[EDIT]:That'll teach me to post before reading the whole thread.

You deserve better than a coward like him.
Sorry

 

Okay... Ask him about it. Don't believe some girl who calls you. Besides, I doubt that if you guys were supposedly planning a future - which I'm definitely not criticizing - the fact that he would run off and suddenly marry some chick. I'm sorry love, that sucks.

 

LOL go cry about it...

If you want I'll wipe your tears for you...

 

who cares you were 17...you loved someone and they shit on you...trust me...i know how you feel...all i can say is this...its not the last time it is going to happen...and as insane as it sounds now, you will meet someone who loves you more than you thought you loved this kid...and i am sure you did love him...life is insane

 

You can't plan for the future, especially at such a young age. The fact that you were planning for marriage at 17 and with your first guy should have indicated to you that you two were moving way too fast and being naive.

 

Yea but some people are together from 12 years old, until death. Why cant she plan for marriage?