Ok, so some background about me... I have always considered myself an extremely sexual person. I was an early bloomer, with my love of the female body in full bloom by fifth grade, sexual experiences not too long after, etc. etc. I have never thought that I was gay, and I still think there is no possibility of that, because I like women just about more than anyone I know. However, for years I've been one of those guys who will point out a good looking guy or whatever. I have always found certain men attractive, but until recently I had never considered acting on it, because I just thought anal sex was the only option, which is something I'm not really into even with a woman. Even forgetting that, I just never allowed myself to think about being with guys because I have always been so into women that the thought never occurred to me. However, I moved to a much more liberal place for college, and now that I am much more accepting of homosexuality due to being in this new environment, I have started to take my attraction to men a lot more seriously, and I'm realizing that it's a very real thing. The thing is, I am far more attracted to women. I hesitate to put a percentage on it (women vs. men), because I tend to be quite attracted to the men I am attracted to, but I am attracted to a much much lower percentage of men than women. If I had to quantify it, I would say like 90-10 women. However, like I said, I don't feel like my attraction to men is something I can just brush off, which makes me think I am bisexual. I mean, if more men looked and acted like a young Marlon Brando, I would be much closer to 50/50 haha. So, what the fuck is going on? I'm glad I'm so open minded, because I'm not freaking out about this at all, and if I'm bi then I will be happy to have found a new part of who I am, but this whole thing is just crazy because a week ago I was still thinking that I am purely straight with just a stronger aesthetic appreciation of the male body, and now I'm realizing that that is exactly what I am, but I could very easily fit into the category of bisexual. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Similar experiences? Or would you say I am straight with only slight curiosity? I've never done anything with a guy, but I would certainly exchange handjobs with the right person, if that makes it any clearer... I don't know. I am so happy with my relationships with women that I don't think I need sexual contact with a man to make me happy, it's just something I think I could enjoy given the opportunity. Anyway, thanks of any feedback.
I wouldn't say so, almost all of them are a very specific type - manly yet beautiful, if that makes sense (like Marlon Brando, maybe Brad Pitt although I'm not that attracted to him, but that type of person). In fact, I think I would tend to shy away from more feminine guys, unless they are just super beautiful... usually I think they look silly.
well you can explore it on here, but in the end I hope you'll feel the need to stop labeling yourself and just go out and enjoy your sexuality S
You're right, worrying about labels can seem pointless, but I guess I'm trying to figure out if this is something meaningful enough to tell me friends about, if that makes sense. Like, should I talk to my male friends and tell them that I have these feelings, or are my feelings sufficiently normal for straight people that I shouldn't feel the need to differentiate myself? Because you're right, a label is just a stupid label
get comfortable and sorted with your sexuality and exactly what it means to you before you discuss it with others, otherwise you'll just get even more confused S
I am pretty much the same way as you. I like men mostly. I am attracted to many more men than women and I have always thought of myself as straight. There are, however, a few women that I've also been attracted to. I've decided that I'm bisexual, but I just like men more, not a big deal to me. But I also think that the labeling thing is dangerous, because I honestly believe that more people would be bisexual if they didn't think about it. But so many people are afraid of being gay still that if someone has slight heterosexual tendencies, they may ignore any other feelings they have.
Well, it could be that you're bi, but prefer girls, I don't know though, I'm not too good at giving advice on relationships and stuff like this sorry
just go with it and enjoy ..or you will look back when you are old and mourn all that wasted time spent worrying about it!!!!
Best way to figure this out: Experiment. If the opportunity to do something sexual with a guy comes along (even if it's just a kiss), grab it.
I'm attracted what a guy has between his legs and behind him the rest of the body doesn't interest me like kissing and embracing doesn't interest me but if a guy wants those from me i will give him what her wants if only to get what i want his ass and his cock!
