is he gay? help

i stay in a dorm and my roomate is watching me all the time especially my back...
once i caught him while i was washing my face in the washroom he was watching me just behind me,i turn back i saw him,and told him that he scared me... this guys keeps touching me ,touching my lower back,he stares at me all the time,late in this night i saw him almost naked cooking!!!! he talks about girls all the time but then he says i dont care about girls.... then i tell him that i need a girlfriend.he tells me i can definetely get a girlfriend that i am am avery sexy guy!!! none of my guy friends have ever told me that i am a sexy guy ,all they will tell me that i am a good looking guy thats all.
so is he gay?

 

Have you asked him?

Other than that there is no definite way to tell. Everybody has a different personality which makes stereotypes hard to judge.

He could just be a extremely creepy.

I'd be more concerned about the unwarranted touching. If he's making you uncomfortable you should tell him to stop. If he doesn't it could be grounds for sexual harassment.

 

agreed completely, ask him clearly to stop, if he does it again, remind him that you have asked him to stop.
if then then continues, take some further action, ask to be moved room maybe.
It doesn't really matter if he is gay or not, he's making you feel uncomfortable
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exactly.

tell him to stop touching and if you want to know his sexuality, then ask.

 

yea but if i ask him his sexuality ,he will tell me that he is straight of course.why should he tell me that he is gay? i am sure he is gay,i have no doubt.

 

...why shouldn't he tell you he is gay, if he is?

 

Maybe hes not out yet, and no one else knows?

 

why ? because we live in a student dorm on campus with 3 other people.
i am not sure about gay people but generally humans arent programmed to tell the truths all the time .thats why.

 

Hi, mapleleaf; in seemed situations I´ve used an almost infallible method: when he touched you, laugh and touched him as a male´s fight. It´s a way of verifying without traversing very much risk. Hope helped you. Peace and Love, friend

 

As previous posters said tell him he is making you uncomfortable with the touching and staring. But leave his sexuality out of it, or I think, cause as you said he'll probley deny it. And plus maybe as others said that he hasn;t come out yet, and plus if word gets around college then people will make stupid remarks. As for saying your sexy its just a complment, yah it might be strange to you but im sure he'll get the point if you tell him nicely you feel uncomfortable.