I must say

For the first time in a while I am single and loving it!


People should really embrace the happiness with being single, in due time things happen.


When was the last time someone was okay with being single, I mean really okay

 

right now i am, after 4 years of relationship/marriage
although i do have a girlfriend, but thats being single right?

 

Whatever that is not single.


Single:

# Not accompanied by another or others; solitary.
#

1. Consisting of one part, aspect, or section: a single thickness; a single serving.
2. Having the same application for all; uniform: a single moral code for all.
3. Consisting of one in number: She had but a single thought, which was to escape.

# Not divided; unbroken: a single slab of ice.
#

1. Separate from others; individual and distinct: Every single child will receive a gift.
2. Having individual opponents; involving two individuals only: single combat.

#

1. Honest; undisguised: a single adoration.
2. Wholly attentive: You must judge the contest with a single eye.

# Designed to accommodate one person: a single bed.
#

1. Unmarried.
2. Lacking a partner: a single parent.
3. Relating to the unmarried state: enjoys the single life.
4. Of or relating to celibacy.

 

oh ok, i was going with unmarried part, although that is not yet legally true

what about when you are 512 miles away from your girl?

 

I've been single for awhile...which is just fine with me
hell even in my last on & off again relationship, I was usually alone
so I guess I have just been used to being single.

 

You are still attached though.

 

i am really really happy to be single right now

really am enjoying life much more - really didn't enjoy being single the last time i was single

 

Me too, I am trully embracing it

 

i really do have tons of fun when i go out now. when i was single last, it got boring

 

Single (unattached, not one of a pair) can be cool. But its also nice to have someone to care about.

 

Yeah I care about people in my life, just not a significant other. Just because you are single doesn't mean you can't care about people.... does that make sense?

 

I have 4 brothers & 7 kids & a few grandkids so I will have someone to care about probably for the rest of my life~even if I never have another significant other.

 

I meant that its nice to have someone special. I didn't mean to suggest that you are uncaring.

 

Yeah it is nice, but for nice I am okay with not having that special someone and being kind of dependent on searching.... does that make sense.

 

I'm single and I hate it, but I'm 16 and think I have avoidant personality disorder.

 

Being single can be good, but too much of a good thing can be bad. Sometimes its good to be single, and sometimes its good not to be single. Being single would suck much less with a fuck buddy on the side.

 

single now and enjoying the summer without having commitments to another person. although i deny it to myself most of the time, however, id like nothing more than to truly care about someone again.

 

I would rather be single then with someone who is a liar and a player.
Being in any relationship where both parties are not 150% into the relationship is a waste of time.
Funny part is I have more sex being single then when i'm in a relationship.
Glad your happy-your a special person Hiro and only deserve the best.
Maybe someday you can come to Woodstock and we can do that bowl?
Peace The Wiz

 

Thank you so much Wiz. I totally agree minus the sex part.

I hope to make it up to Woodstock someday

 

When your single you have lot's sex but no ones around.