Okay so here's the deal. I met this good looking, sweet guy, that was totally into me. He lives in another town about an hour away. So since i've meet him he's come to mi casa every weekend to party. So later i find out after the fact that we had sex or as he would say we made love and to him it was romantic and to me well let's just say it wasn't. Sex after a long night of drinking and then going out to breakfast coming back to the house and ripping off eachothers clothes is not romantic to me......anyways i find out later that he has a girlfriend. yes that's right my friend he has a girlfriend. so i decide not freak or anything cuz well i didn't know and we aren't together or anything. well i meet his girlfriend invite her over to my house to party. so he goes and gets her and she brings her 3 year old daughter to a party. so i get to know her a little better and find out she is a crazy bitch meth head. she's a real nice girl but she is a fucking meth head not cool in my book. so the entire time she is at my house Jon-is his name-doesn't want her there is hitting on me while she's not in the room. and then the shit goes down cuz she got drunk and decided everyone needed to see her boobs and well just acted like a slut and jon made her leave cuz well, i didn't want to have to throw this crazy drunk bithc and her kid out cuz well i'm pretty sure she would want to fight me and that wouldn't have turned out good for her.........anyways what i am trying to get at is now he broke up with her and everything and still wants to hook up with me. what should i do-should i play him. cuz if he would do that to one girl he'll do it to another just need some advice
i find this entire thread to be whole heartedly disturbing, and im not just reffering to the man in the picture.
maybe he treated her this way coz shes a meth head and and he'd had enough of the way she behaves. there again you may be correct in assuming hes not too nice a guy. but i would assume the first senario where he'd had enough. but i think your right about playing him a bit and see how things pan out. you'll soon find out one way or thr other. good luck
If he was "romantic" with you while dating "meth-head", it stands to reason he will do that with others. Play him if you like, but don't trust him.
i don't really know what to "play" someone means. however, i would procede with the relationship, i just wouldn't put too much of your heart into it.
You sure talked alot of crap about someone you were to afraid to ask to leave your house.... I'd say you find someone that isn't a a player. Don't be a ho and play him.
Sounds like a bad fuckign istuation to be in, best avoided in my book. I mean, even if she knows hes fucking you as well, she doesnt sound like someone to be daeling with if avoidable.
If anything right now I would go get a blood test to see what you are carrying from being with him. Then grow up before you have any type of relationship again.
Some harsh criticism on this thread, but mostly with its heart in the right place - it doesn't sound like a good situation.
I also don't know what you mean by play him. But trying to put myself in your shoes, which is very difficult because I really don't understand your point of view with what you said in your first post.(also pretty disturbed by it) I'm very suspicious of any guy who breaks up with his girlfriend, especially if they had a bad relationship, just in time to start a new one with someone else. But not before they've already cheated on the girlfriend. I've had this happen before, and when he let me know he had broken up with his girlfriend for me, I pretty much never talked to him again.
