i have a problem. im 18 years old and i have a girlfriend. everything is great and we have sex and its all good (i didnt had sex for 6+ months). my problem is that i cum too fast, i mean really fast... i masturbate her and she cums, but i get so horny that sometimes i can cum while she puts on the condom. or a min after i penetrate i want to cum and i cant fuck fast and i dont like it i want her too cum while im inside her and i know i can do it if i wont cum so fast.. and she dont care so much becuause everyone cums eventually, but i care. so what can i do in order not to cum so fast....?? please help!!!!!!
I've heard masturbating a lot can help you control when you get off. Maybe have a little self-sex before you and her have sex.
...and spend much time in 4play. The mouth, the hands, the tongue on her breasts and downward. Don't forget to kiss her. Spend a lot of quality time before even thinking about condoms and intercourse. She may begin to orgasm, you too....so what? At 18 you have a lifetime of pleasure ahead of you (think Abraham at 99!) If the two of you screw up a few times while you are getting used to each other - so what? It's all fun anyway. So, slow down and enjoy!