Death of a friend.

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by wizarddrew77, Aug 14, 2006.

  1. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    I had this friend who was a single Mom and knew her a long time. In my own life things have been really crazed and I lost touch with her for a couple of months. I had not heard anything from her and she had cancer,
    So I just thought she was still in remission and for once enjoying the summer with her little daughter. In the middle of a bad break up in a even worse relationship I found out she passed away about a week ago.
    So she was already cremated and I missed the services and can't even get in touch with any of her family since all her stuff is now disconnected.
    So I have lost lot's people over the years and even lost 22 friends in 9/11. But for whatever reason I'm really having a hard time putting this into perspective and trying to move on.
    I know a lot of it is my other shit I have going on but I just can't stop thinking about how most of the time life is a cruel place and very unfair.




     
  2. pickin_wildflowers

    pickin_wildflowers Senior Member

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    I'm very sorry to hear that... but yeah I can relate... life is always out to get back at you for any good you may have sent out there. But I wish you all the best.
     
  3. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    Sorry to hear that. I get sad when i think of the few people I've known who passed on. Reminds me that one day it will be my turn. The good thing is that you learn to appreciate your time here.
     
  4. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    I'm really sorry about that Drew. Hope her little girl is being taken care of well.
     
  5. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    Damn... death is so-- final.
    I'm sorry you lost your friend. Bummer you didn't get the chance to say goodbye. Hope her kid is ok.
     
  6. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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  7. denimstar

    denimstar edge of darkness

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    It seems harder to accept when you don't find out immediately. I'm sorry for your loss & may you find peace soon.
     
  8. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    I'm sorry to hear that :( Much strength and positive vibes to you!!
     
  9. warmhandedcanadian

    warmhandedcanadian shit storm chaser

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    yeah I'm sorry to hear of this too... must really suck... just allow yourself to feel it... it's natural.
     
  10. Dustinthewind

    Dustinthewind woopdee fucking doo

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    I'm really sorry to hear this too.
     
  11. I'm truly sorry too. I hope you can find a new definition for life.
     
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