Nudity is bogus! They call it nonsexual nudity. I've never heard of anything so ridiculous, it's oxymoronic! No staring, no overtures. Why the fuck do you get naked! I used to live near a nude beach and boy did they have rules! You'd have better luck with a hooker! Can't be this way everywhere! Stay Naked anyway!
You get naked as a way of showing you are comfortable with your body. Once people become comfortable with nudity, you are not staring, it is simply a matter of fact thing. Those of us who are nudists show that we a not bound by conventional societies rules regarding clothing. There are rules in nudist venues because sexual predators may view them as a place to seek potential victims. These rules help keep the predatorary individuals out.
Yeah, what he said... We should feel SAFE, alone in our bodies. Not like somebody is staring, thinking of us as a piece of meat, as a toy. This world desperately NEEDS more nonsexual nudity... people growing up are too uncomfortable with their bodies because of the shit the media feeds them, because most of them haven't seen a REAL grown man/woman's body completely nude. They see these images of people, anywhere from 15-50 (give or take a few years, even) with thin, well-toned bodies (see: plastic surgery) in bikinis, shirtless, and/or in tiny, tight clothes. Then they think that's what they're supposed to look like. Bullshit.
It really bothers me that nudity to most people is only a sexual thing... I like being naked because it's comfortable, and it makes me feel more in touch with my natural self. However, my boyfriend only sees it as a sexual thing, and can't seem to keep his hands off me when I just go about my daily routine in the nude... I want him to understand that this is the way I just like to be, it's not an invitation for a sex-athon. I love getting up in the morning when my roomie stays with her boyfriend, and getting up in the nude and making my coffee and doing my morning house duties in the nude. I love cooking in the nude, and doing bills in the nude... I would LOVE to stay at a nude community for a while, except my boyfriend is still uncomfortable with the idea as he sees it as a sexual thing and thinks that everyone will just be staring at me finding ways to have sex with me LOL I want him to do it with me really bad, I think it would be an awesome experience, but whatever. I LOVE feeling primitive, and nothing makes me feel more natural and primitive than being nude.
Nonsexuals? The era of freelove is long gone. Where has nature gone? I've heard of safe sex but safe nudity? It's absurd! You nonsexuals ought to go to church! That's were all the nonsexuals are! I think I'll go to church!
Cooking yes, but I can't say being naked makes me look forward to paying bills. I always fiind something else to do! But anyway, if you want to get involved in naturism there are lots of ways, either doing it on your own or with a few close friends (too bad your boyfriend can't stop being unreasonable--there's plenty of time for sex and other things too). There are a lot of naturist discussion boards on the internet, though if you tell people you're a 19 year old woman, some of them might start getting, uh, unreasonable. There are local groups in some places, often based around a particular location (a beach, say) and one that you might be able to get to is at Mazo Beach in Mazomanie, one of the best-known places for nudity in the USA. And the headquarters of the Naturist Society is in Oshkosh, but don't think that it's a place where they all run around nude--they have a magazine to produce and memberships to process and stuff to sell by mail order etc.
What is it that you're complaining about Bustramp? Did you hope that all naked people would want to sleep with you? Was that a big disappointment? Free love went mainstream, they call it swinging now. Hippies were always naked for more reasons than sex, and they still are. What you're looking for, getting naked in public to have sex, is called dogging - there are websites for that if it's what you want.
:toetap: Aww come on, I'm not a troll this is just a personal rant that's all. I thought it was kind of ironic that's all. This is an old thread, I'd forgotten about it. Every body's naked your on the beach and all they do is give you a list of rules: no staring, no overtures, It's crazy! But, I've found you can always work your way. I was just sounding off. Bustramp
Being nude is being free. Sounds corny maybe, but it is my belief. (Not to mention, I'm a bit of an exhibitionist!)
It's not about looking at naked people, in fact it's not about other people being naked at all. It's about YOU being naked, man, no matter where you are. Nudist beaches are in place so everyone can feel comfortable with their bodies, not so a guy nicknamed "bustramp" can "work his way" to stare at my cock! For real.
Hopefully that wouldn't be a catholic church or where ever priest are having to much fun with kids. It can be an eye-opener the first time you ever go into a family oriented clothing-optional resort. Everyone from 1-day old to 100 yrs old are all running around. Some of the most comfortable looking people are the families and the old overweight people. They shed their inhabitions right along with their clothes. They also save money at the laundrymat, and they don't have to run to Wal-Mart for the latest fashion fad.
i think i saw bustramp the last time i was at the beach. he was sitting on a chair stroking himself while looking at me. if it wasnt him then it was someone like him. personally i dont mind it, if you get your kicks stroking one off to me then good for you, but that dosnt change the fact that its a bit rude and would ruin the whole naturist experience for someone new and still a little insecure about their body.
