I beat a guy

Today I beat a guy to a bloody pulp for physically and mentally abusing his girlfriend, my good friend, over a longer period of time... Is that wrong?

btw, his abuse resulted in suicide attempts, ED's and generally selfharming behaviour...

 

He hit a girl, so he deserves a lesson and your seemed to teach it well.

 

yeah but he really looked like a boney pile of bloody mashed potato when I left... Did I like go too far?

 

Been there done that, dont feel sorry.

 

I don't... like at all.... that's what kinda scares me

 

Well that just shows that you have feelings for people and that you have a good heart. I know when i was in the same poisition i felt worried for abouit a week If the guy was o.k.

In the end though you probably teached him a lesson that he will never forget. And that is the best kind of lesson for scumbags like that.

 

I told him that if he ever looked at her again or said anything else to the doc's than that he'd falled down a staircase, we'd meet again

But I'd actually planned everything I was gonna say on my way over there, so he got a speech I can't remember it too clearly tho, it's all kinda blurry you know

 

If the only thing a man can find to beat on is a woman or child he should just go outside and shoot hmiself,and the same aplys for women who beat their children .

 

I can't say wether it's right or wrong..... anyone who abuses those weaker than themselves are teh scum of the earth..... so maybe this guy deserved a good kicking.

I hope you realise that any anger this guy feels towards you (which is a lot i imagine) will now also be turned towards the poor lass tho', hope yer got her to somewhere safe

 

I told him that if I ever heard of him just as much as looking at her again I'd find him... And trust me, he's a lot more scared of me than he's angry... Besides he won't get out of bed for an other few weeks

 

I don't believe violence is ever the answer. I'm glad your friend has found safety, but karma will take care of that man.

 

Good for you, revenge is always the answer.

I support you fully.

 

Some times people need to step up, good on you.

 

life is what you can do with it,
you were stronger then him,
just like he is stronger then that girl,
you did what you felt like to him, and he did what he felt like to her
sounds fair to me, justice is defined by perspective, do what you like,
that is the most just life

 

^ that's just stupid.

OP, sometimes violence is the only thing people understand. If he's been abusing your friend for a long time, then not only does he deserve a good stomping, it's probably the only way he would have stopped.

 

If i wanted to i could just ignore your random inflammatory statement, and maybe in real life i would; but this is a forum, and i come here to not only listen to other people promblem to help them find solutions, or to find solutions to my own, i sign on becasue i want to discuss ideas to better understand the world, and to educate myself

what defines anything as being wrong, i guessing that lakshen hoped that if a majority of people agreed with what he did then he could quell, his doubts about hurting someone because he had "just" cause, because wrong is defined by some by what the majority of people think

I'm not saying that he didn't have good reasons and it is not place to say

who can deem what is equal or fair in this circumstance

but to live with must reach conclustion and even if there is no perfect answer we must try to answer to be able to defeat obstacles, and scenarios like this one

so to see if what he did was right i decide at least to see what he did was fair, or equal

he beat a guy to the verge of death
becasue he hurt a girl, to the point where she placed her self ont he verge of death
The man who hurt the girl, hurt someone almost to death, was hurt by lakshen almost to death,

which sounds equal to me and so it " sounds fair to me"

in simplest words i could conjure i say what i think sounds the most just to me, do what you can when you should do, , a life without chracter compromise with be the most just of all things

 

Hear hear!

 

as a matter of fact he was far stronger than me...

my friend could've never left him otherwise, he needed to be scared or he'd keep comming... Trust me


Oh and I'm not looking for enough people to say it's just so I won't feel bad about it... The thing is, I don't feel bad about it, at all... I felt kinda scared of myself because I haven't even got the tinyest voice that says it was wrong, it just says it had to be done... So I wanted to know how far off I was on that...

 

If I could, I would take all her beatings and curses on myself... But I couldn't, so this will never be fair, he deserves more pain than I could ever dish out...

 

well the fact you beat him up means in soem way you were able to overpower him

i'm not trying to sound dangerous or insane, or special, or like a freak but it is a good things to not be nagged by your concuss