Now I want to fall in love for the last time

well that means heart and logic are pretty much related
coz the logic helps u to folow ur hear

 

well there you have it, the differance between foolishness and doing things right...

 

Absolutely there's a difference between being "in love" & loving someone.

 

I thought you were in SE asia. We're pretty much in the same time zone, or so i thought.

 

No, I am in the Netherlands. Will be in SE Asia in about one and a half month.

 

I've been in love twice, I'm certain of that. My first love and I have changed far too much for that fire to have lasted. It was real, indeed, but it wasn't society's definition of true love, I guess. I was soooo in love with him, though, and I still love him deeply, but I'm not in love with him anymore, because even who he used to be isn't something I desire anymore.

I've loved my current love for a year now and what small changes we've gained, we've gained together, and we're mature enough to understand that to have a fruitful, healthy love, we have to accept that change happens and we need to adapt to what comes our way. I think that's key to a "true love" if you want it to last, the acceptance that circumstances change and so do certain aspects of people.

 

i think love is something you have to be lucky to experience, in any of your lives

 

have you ever considered giving up women totally? and just going for guys? they seem to be easier anyways

 

I was never really sure whether u had a heart or not...what a sweet revelation...

I agree with some of the other ppl who wrote here saying that u cant be looking actively...just be open to it and know that when u have accepted ur current circumstances and most likely when u least expect it may appear....

I think there is a great guy out there for me somewhere, but maybe im not mature enough or havent reached the stage yet where i would be very good at loving. I just know now not to go into relationships ever for the wrong reasons.
Im just single again and enjoying it, i have met one guy that i know i have been falling for but circumstances are prohibiting that from happening...but it sucks when u have everything in common and undrstand each others conversation more than anyone else does....but cant do anything about it...
uknow that subtext? that silent communication? U dont have to talk - it's like an invisible c(h)ord connecting the two of u together.....

But maybe sometimes we miss out.... there may be a great beauty in that...a terrible beauty....

 

I believe that I can love and be in love as many times and as many ways as there are people. I'm never in love the same way with each person, because each individual brings out different things in me, and I feel a little bit different with each person. And I find different types or levels of love, some are intense, some are comfortable, and not all are necessarily sexual.

And every time I think I'll never love again, it blindsides me and shows me how wrong I can be. But it's like a trick of the light or an illusory reflection in a mirror. If I'm looking for it, I don't find it. As soon as I stop looking and just be, there it is!

I have a small stone plaque engraved with this, just to remind me...

LOVE LIKE YOU'LL NEVER GET HURT

 

the worst feeling is after you lose someone you truely loved and kinda feel like that person was perfect for you and you will never feel that way about someone again. Most people love again though, keep on searching bird.

 

Contrary to popular belief here I do have a heart, I do have emotions and I do care. But the cynic in me usually gets the best of me. Fucking life makes everyone with half a brain a cynic.

I have half a brain.