Good One Wiz. I wish everyone understood that their children don't BELONG to them and aren't possessions. That is something we learned in the 60s (cause we certainly realized we didn't belong to our parents).
That is so beautiful! I hope that when I am blessed with children I keep those words close to my heart...thank you. Much love to you my brother!
Makes me wish i had gone to camp Good on you Wizard...you have a very healthy view of something so natural... They shouldnt have kicked her out though... or was it a jesus camp?
Thanks Bro-LOL Yes we sure learned that one quick. I have come to this point where I tell even my kids we are brothers and sisters since we are all spirit and the same age anyway.
Thanks Bro and i'm sure you and your mate are doing the same with your little one too. You guys Rock. Funny you were the one who asked about the camp. I did not want the camp type to infulence anyones posts. It is a weight loss camp and very popular. So my response also was well she lost 29 pounds and felt that good about herself to have sex so i'm very happy. The camp folks were more into the other stuff and just blew me off on my response. If you guys ever come up this way stop by and if you can make it for a full Moon even better. We have a great Full Moon Meet up on the mountian each month. Peace Bring your drum!
I believe in empowering my children with knowledge, and expect them to be sexually active so I applaud your openess. More parents need to be! The one point that I disagree on is being so accepting of your daughter having sex at camp. My kids have been told that there is a time and place and to always consider others who may see you. Not saying you or your daughter did anything wrong, but it is not something I would have easily accepted. I am not saying "no sex in public" just know where you are and act accordingly. Like sex on a private beach or in the woods is one thing, on a playground is not the best idea. If that makes any sense...... As for making you pay for the car, well that is just plain idiotic. Let them eat the bill and maybe next time they won't be so quick to throw a kid out.
I married my wife after she just turned 18. We have been married for many many years now. Although I am much older we do very well. Seems to me these types of camps with young adults should have areas that are private for personal behaviors. Many jails offer times and places for consensual sex visits. Should jail have more freedoms than a "camp"?
Very true. I don't know camp and sex seem to go together. Look at the movie Dirty Dancing-that was great.