Love really is important...

Man, whether its real or on the phone, being with someone you love makes the experience 10x better, if not 100x. I had phone sex tonight with my fiance, and I came so friggin' hard. It's been that way every time we have phone sex... with porn, or just imagination, its good but not great. Talking to her, hearing her voice, hearing her cumming... it is just so damn stimulating that I cum harder then normal.

What about you?

 

screw the phone sex, it just feels corky and pathetic. The sounds of her cumming are even better when shes laid out infront of you.

 

Oh, I totally agree but when she's on the other side of the ocean having her laid out in front of you is kind of hard

 

Love DOES make it so much better. I can have extremely pleasurable experiences with people I am merely attracted to ... but have only had a real orgasm with someone I love.

 

I haven't had sex with someone I love yet, so we'll see about that. Though I have had phone sex with someone I love, and it's pretty fucking good.

 

Being in love makes all the difference. I've been with guys I positively hated and a very few guys I really loved. The difference is night and day. I've also noticed that you'll put up with a boatload of crap from someone you love.

 

I have not yet put up with any crap a guy has given me. This current guy, has yet to give me crap.

I put up with a little crap from one guy. Then I got pregnant and got the hell out of there.

 

A good rule of thumb is to put up with as little crap as possible. The more you feel unhappy about what's going on and just pretend it's all alright, the more time you waste. I once wasted three years in a relationship where I basically spent the whole time letting the guy run over me. I wish I hadn't wasted the time now.

How old is your baby? If, that is, you had it and kept it.

 

I agree with the first few posts. Love makes it sooooooo much more enjoyable. I recommend it.

 

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Sorry. Apparently I never went back to this post. I have an 18 month old daughter now.

 

I absolutely adore and love my girlfriend, and it makes it all the more better. And Phone sex is cool, I never thought i'd do it but it kind of happened, we were talking on the phone, and she's so damn hot i just, needed her that we both just, started.