reasons for no sexual arousal???

just wanted to know what some reasons could be for no sexual arousal when there used to be

 

Medication?
Stress?
Pregnancy?

I know there are a lot more, but those 3 were the first to pop into my head.

 

Maybe lack of variety... you could try something different to float your boat. Or maybe something’s changed about whoever (or whatever) gets you aroused. Plus it could be hormonal. Someone mentioned medication; the pill is widely recognised to reduce sex drive… some anti-depressants can also lower sex drive.

 

Are you talking about you or him? I'd say medication would be most likely. Second thing that comes to mind is a bad relationship. Nothing worse for your libido than dating (or being married to) someone you don't really like or who doesn't treat you right and make you feel sexy.

 

Lack of trust
Lack of confidence
Medication
Stress
Tiredness

 

i want to have sex but for the past several times it just doesn't the same and i have a hard time being aroused. i guess it's either stress or medication...i've been having a lot of headaches lately and had to take more headache pills than normal

 

Stress headaches or regular headaches?

If they are stress headaches, well, the number one cause for me to lose my sex drive is stress. If you're too stressed to sit back and put school/work out of your mind for a little while, how the hell are you supposed to get aroused (which is mostly psychological)?

If they are some other kind of headache, then the headaches and lack of arousal could be from the same thing. My headaches tend to be from allergies, which make me feel crappy all over, which then makes me less likely to be all that in the mood... So if there's something going on with your health that is causing regular headaches, that could also be affecting you physically in other ways.

 

Go to the doctor and get checked out. Maybe, your hormone levels are low.

 

thank you all so much. i get headaches a lot actually but they come in spells, like a lot for a few months and then hardly any the next few months, and i've had them since i was like 9 years old. anyhow i think every year i unconsciously create stress before school starts or as it starts and maybe that's what has been going on. thanks again

 

If you get headaches tons, you should see an eye doctor... I used to get htem all the time, like almost every day and i got a pair of glasses, now I rarely get headaches. Very mild prescription too, but it helped soooo much.