im writing this on behalf of my girlfriend, my girlfreinds parents are complete jerks. were both 18 and been together for 2 years and my parents are amazing, extremly free with us both. Her parents are strict as hell and its pissing me off. Ill make plans with my g.f and all of sudden shes got to look after there daughter cuz they cant be arsed, then they say she cant see me cuz she spends to much time with me, but her sister stays out 7 nights a week and she not allowed to stay at mine once at all. they really wind me up. shes scared to stand up to them but im at the end of my teather, i cant stand making plans and them getting ruined by them dicks. i dont know how to tell my girlfreind i cant take it. i keep telling her to tell them straight, i tell her to say back off or ill move out but shes scared and stupid any help please
Unfortunately, when you live with someone and eat their food, etc you have to follow their rules. You are both old enough to be on your own if freedom is what you desire more then being taken care of. Get jobs, save up and move her out. You really shouldn't encourage her to break her parents rules though as it will just cause more issues especially if you are planning on being with her for the long term.
Does she live in their house? Do they support her? She is only 18. She is still, in the eyes of many, still a child. Especially if she is supported by them.
