Hiya sooooo.............i'm finding it really difficult to cum with new partners as i was with my boyfriend for six years and he knew perfectly how to make me cum on my clit. I find i cant touch or be touched directly on it -- far tooooo sensitive!! anyone else have this? also how is the best way to tell explain to new ppl about this as i find/ have found that they just wanna touch it directly just need reassurance im not alone here lol
yeh i do in the moment etc and show him but hand or tongue usually ends up falling back to directly on !! maybe just persistance persistance persistance huh?
count them up and bite his dick while giving him oral for every time he directly touches your clit. he'll learn soon enough.
Unless you are going out with Kreskin, you have to tell your partner when you get to that point. If he doesn't listen, he doesn't get to touch it again.