ooooh that wasnt a good thing to do Chrissie!! Hooking up with your mans best friend is NEVER going to win Brownie points with either of them. Now the guy you had sex with, is going to feel hurt and maybe not trust you, and the best friend is probably going to wonder what kind of girl you are if you hooked up with him while with someone else. Having said that, the best friend sounds like a fucking loser if he is going to hook up with his best mates girl. BUT, we ALL make mistakes like this (hell, I had a 3sum with my ex's identical twin brother and his gf) and you just gotta learn from them!
Nah Gloria, it is all good. The guy I had sex with told me upfront that he liked me but did not want a relationship and he said he didn't trust women and didn't think he was even capable of loving one. And he is the one that told me that his friend had a huge thing for me. I actually told the new guy (Rob) today that me and Shane had hooked up, but explained the whole situation. So I have decided to just date Rob and everyone is okay with it. If Shane really wanted to be with me than he should have been with me and he wasn't.
Those were some true words Soul. I have such a hard time saying 'no'. And really, that is the whole reason that I had sex with the one guy. I just went along with it because it seemed easier at the time. But I don't regret it anymore. It was good to get the painful and uncomfortable first time over with. And I think I have learned something from it. But from now on, I am going to do what I feel like doing.
will did you have fun ? put your shcool frist then work then sex :H men will come and go like women they come and go I just got back from a trip I met a fer women on my way but had a little fun the saying go women and men come and go you are the one got find your happynes
I consider myself to be a real male whore but with a sensitive side. I will listen when a lady needs an ear to bend.
aahaha! exact same thing happened to me! except i also had sex with his best friend (incredably drunk-the stupidist craziest thing ive done- and i regret it!) they both have the same name- and they both work together. and whats worse! is that- i LOVE the first one. but he kinda distroyed me. crushed me. and so ..that happened. no more details. but ya aint a whore!!!! no way man!!! either am i!!!
i agree w/ didge. its all in growing up. we all experiment. we all make bad decisions. we all make good decisions. if some of these decisions make you thing yourself a whore, then stand back and analyze your behaviour. but jimminy cricket, i went through a few years of parties where in that time i slept with 14 people. none of which i cared about. i was more a whore than you. and i dont even think myself one. i was drunk.
you're not a whore, just making up for lost time. you needn't feel guilty about doing something, if it's what you want to do. it's your life. just be sure that you aren't letting people push you around. oh, yeah, and keep us updated. lol your stories just keep getting more and more interesting...
Yeah, you guys are right. I am just finally growing up and it just feels weird. The friend of the guy I had sex with is now officially my boyfriend. And it is awesome. But the other day I was giving Shane (guy I had sex with) a ride to his apartment and he just started kissing me, and it was right after I told him that I was officially dating his friend and then he asked me if you could spend the night with me. Apparently he is insane.
Damn girl. Somebody should make a cheezy soap-opera about you. Love, and all that hippy jazz in your general direction