wayy back when i first came out to my school a few months ago maybe march i think? well, there was this guy i kinda had a little crush on..and he started flirting with me. like smiling at me, grabbing my ass ect. and my friend asked him if he was gay and he said "i dont know maybe" and he continued on "flirting" with me...and i was getting really happy and hopefull. but then a week later it just stopped and nothing happened again so im not sure, was he screwing with me? or was he actually gay/bi? cause' now that school is comming up again for me im thinking about him again.. >.< what do you think??
Does he know you're gay?I mean,he could be just a jerk,and trying to push your buttons.Or,he's confused and unsure about his feelings.Maybe he thought he went too far,and backed off?When school starts,see if you can find some one on one time,and see where that goes.Maybe he's figured some stuff out over the summer.Don't push anything,just see where the conversation goes.Good luck,man!
Well first I'd like to say good for you for coming out in school! That's very brave... I haven't yet come up with the courage to do that.. People in this small little hick town aren't very open minded.. It's quite sad actually. And about this guy. Like Treyola said he could just be tryin to be an ass and push your buttons... But since you don't know that and you kinda like him I say you try makin friends and then just see where it goes from there. Good luck
Yeah, just see what happens when school starts. Give it a few days and see how he acts. Then once you've observed, you should talk to him.
Maybe he thought he went too far, and he was afraid that he would scare you off ? you need to have a laid back..casual conversation with him..nothing deep..just find out where hi mind is at.
i agree with the above posters... i had that happen to me once. i bet he thought he went too far or didn't get the response he was hoping for. wait until school starts and see how he is then.
i agree, too. wait till school starts again. sadily, sometimes guys are pricks and when they find out that a guy is gay, they mess with them. that happened to a couple of my friends in high school. one friend of mine finally built up the courage to come out and there was this guy who was generally seen as a more "popular" guy who saw him in the library and sat down and started talking to him about how he thinks that he might be gay, too, etc. well, he was telling me about this guy a few days later, and then he came up to my friend in the hall while i was talking to him and started yelling, "you're a sin! You should be dead!" and he carried on all the way down the hallway. I really hope in your case, the guy is genuine. I'd just start having some casual talks with him as friends and see what he says. Kinda try to forget that you have feelings for the guy and just be causual around him. Good luck, though
