-before i got my vibrator, id stick a finger inside of me and get the biggest, longest orgasms ive ever felt. well, after ive gotten my vib., i started using it just on my clit since its too large to put IN me. well, ive recently started to go back to the finger-in-me routine, but get nothing. any tips?
Maybe just cut back on the vibe a litte bit, using it only sometimes. If you've gotten a little desensitized by it, take a little break and see if that helps. And then switch off between vibe and fingers. Even just giving it a few days could help. I suspect that, if you take a break from the vibe, you'll get increasingly built up anyways so that a finger's more than enough. Good luck! Hopefully will work out so that you can use either as much as you wish.
You might not. Over time what used to get you off doesn't work anymore. That is why it is important to keep it mixed up.
Well, yes and no. Sometimes it's hard to go back if you've been doing something else, but it all depends. Different ways of doing things give very different sorts of experiences and results... I've generally found the easiest way to make anything work is to take a break. Usually that brea will get me craving things all the more. On top of that, there's all the random variations that happen. I'd been in a sort of rut lately, and then suddenly I was getting off 2 or 3 times a day. I can't explain why. So I guess role with the punches, but at the very least, don't worry too much just now. And I'll keep my fingers crossed that your fingers start working great again. Gotta love magical fingers.
You should try avoiding your vibrator for about a week. You may be too dependant on it to bring you pleasure.