Ok I Need Some Pretty Urgent Advice

This could possibly be long and boring. I'll try to give the reader's digest version.

Herbuhlovuh is going away for a few weeks. He usually takes me to my job, which is 5 minutes away, that way. He's quitting his job. And I'm staying here perhaps.

Without him I have no transportation, which is fine. I've been wanting to be on my own for a while, but I didn't expect him to decide so suddenly about leaving.

So, I'm probably going to have to quit my job as well. Which is also fine. But if I do that, I don't know what I'll do for money, transportation. I could take care of his animals, but that's still not enough and doesn't take care of transportation.

Should I ask someone to help me with a car loan? Should I get a live-in nanny position, should I find some other job that I can take the bus or walk to, should I not work and just look for things I want to do... Should I keep my job... God I just don't know... I'm glad this is happening, but I don't know what to do about it. Perhaps I should go to SF and wander around aimlessly? Should I call the dance studio and ask them if they have anyone from my area who'd like to carpool?

So many decisions, so little time... Sorry for rambling and probably not making any sense. If you read through this, thanks a ton. If you comment, I owe you.

 

This is too complicated to give advice for. But i listened, thats really all you want right?

 

Yes, all I really wanted was to right it out, and then I'll write it in my journal, and I just wanted someone to read it. I will not end up making a decision, the time will come and I'll do "what I gotta do, yo"

haha... not so urgent.

 

Get on your knees and pray to Jesus. He always answers

 

wander around aimlessly in SF? that doesnt sound like a good idea.....be safe.

 

Don't listen to alex...be reckless.

Why don't you take a tour of the meat packing district?

 

haha, no I know lots of people there, but I'd really not want to go there at this point, lots of people keep telling me to go there though.

 

Keep the current job til you find one you like better, get a buspass.

 

I would in fact like to delete this thread altogether. How's that?

 

Yeah, i reccomend meat packing to anyone.

 

Hey it's going to be all kool. Keep the job-take the bus or hitch a ride. Then figure out where and what you have to do that will make YOU happy now.
Wandering around is like flying a plane with no flight plan. You will run out of fuel and crash. Just what your ex would love. This time it's for you-Go for it! You can do and go anywhere-Just be who you are though. Peace

 

I disagree. Hannah, sometimes its good for the soul to wander around. Especially now you need to reasses your circumstances.

 

Well, I can't actually get to the bus w/o someone driving me, unless I want to bike or walk for a really long time and be really sweaty on my way to work. I live in the worst possible part of town.