Okay. I don't think I've ever had an orgasm, but sometimes when i masturbate I get this feeling like I want to pee or something right before I stop. and I hold back in fear of me peeing. Do any other females get this feeling? Is it normal? What do your orgasms actually feel like????
Hm.. you're 21.. you kinda should have the pleasure of an orgasm by now. It's hard to compare feelings etc, but if I stimulate my g-spot I often feel like peeing, then it starts to hurt and in the end I don't orgasm. When I stimulate my clit though, there are no problems. But (hopefully) some wise words: if peeing is you're only fear/problem.. why don't you try masturbating in the shower/bathtub? That way, it's no problem if you pee.. and maybe you get a huge 21 year build up orgasm in stead! And by the way.. you'll know when you have an orgasm Keep us posted!
It's probably because the female G spot is so close to the bladder... Go to the loo beforehand, emoty your bladder and try not to worry
wow you people realy no how to express your selfs man and i think thats cool u dont get many that tell you these kind of stories peace man.
Some women ejaculate a semen - like fluid when they orgasm. Like we men. The peeing feeling you are experiencing is the build up of your ejaculatory fluid. Which means you are one of the lucky few women who ejaculate when you come. By lucky I mean that your ejaculatory orgasms will be more intense and pleasurable than most girls experience. And lucky because most men think it is awesome to be with a women who can ejaculate. Next time you masturbate and feel that peeing feeling build up, keep on going. Don't stop and don't hold back. Let it go and see what happens. The fluid won't be much, a couple of teaspoons, but you should have an awesome time. I have been with one girl who ejaculated during oral, and it was one of the most fantastic things I have ever experienced. Mark
i was under the understanding that most women ejaculate, it just depends on how they're stimulated, i guess...and it's not a few teaspoons, more like one..i guess it may vary too though... but if a girl is on her back she may ejaculate and not know it because there's so little fluid that it doesn't leave the urethra
Research indicates that most women can ejaculate, but only a few do. Most hold it back because they feel like their going to pee. The best way for a girl to ejaculate is normally g-spot stimulation. I have had around 100 sex partners, only one ejaculated big time. Some others may have ejaculated without me noticing. Men I know have also had lots of partners, but very few who ejaculated. For sure, it's not common. You are right, the quantity varies from a couple of drops, which is why we men sometimes can't tell, up to a teaspoon or two. A small numbers ejaculate a fair amount of come, but that is very uncommon. Mark
As one who has on several occasions left huge puddles on the bed, this is good advice. I was probably around your age the first time I had a g-spot orgasm (had had clittoral & vaginal orgasms, there is a difference if you pay attention!). I freaked out too, ran to the bath tub, then kept going, just to see if that was pee or something else... If you are worried about it actually being pee, let it happen under the right conditions, then check it out. Lay a white towel under you before masturbating, so that you won't make a mess of your bed & so that you feel safe in that you can bleach the hell out of it if needed! Pee has a definite odor & will stain yellow. Female ejaculate has a salty-sweet odor... I've heard it compared to the smell of clovers. It also is clear & will not stain the towel. It sounds kinda gross, until you realize that it is definitely NOT urine coming out... And the orgasm is so intense, you won't regret letting loose! If you want more info, check out www.talksexwithsue.com/Gspot.html.
i dont think that its gross at all, kinda turn on, whatever the case, if it turns out to B urine or cum, have fun discovering yourself...
My orgasms vary. I am one of those women who can "ejaculate" when I have a hardcore orgasm (but not every single time). However, with my last boyfriend, I held back after I discovered that he wasn't fond of me wetting all over him and the bed (DIPSHIT!). He was convinced it was piss. Even if I go pee right before sex (or other methods of reaching orgasm), I can still have a large amount of fluid come out when I come (seems like a hell of a lot more than the 1-2 tablespoons or whatever everyone has been mentioning). It took a lot of research on my part to discover that it was completely normal, and now I know that one extra little requirement of a future partner of mine is that they have to fully support my need to release and "let it all come out", so to speak. Man, I love that feeling. Towels are our friends!
First, if you don't think you've had one, you probably haven't. When you have one, you will feel it, trust me. The best way to describe it? Hmmm - a complete rush throughout your body that'll make you feel dizzy, lightheaded, your eyes roll in the back of your head...you'll be extremely relaxed and content right after you've had one. And after a while, if you continue to stimulate yourself, you will have multiple orgasms, which is tons better! Do you know about Kegel exercises? Find out if you don't! http://www.sexinfo101.com/is_kegel.shtml Here is a site to explain. Doing these exercises during (and at other times) will help you have great orgasms. It'll also improve your sex life too. Another piece of advice. Don't worry too much when you are trying to achieve an orgasm. That doesn't help and will make it very hard to have one. Also, alcohol and other drugs can make it harder to have one. Just keep that in mind. Don't feel shy about exploring the rest of your body when you are trying to achieve an orgasm - that will definitely help as well. Good luck!
Ditto. I don't know how common or rare it is to gush large amounts, but 1-2 tbsp is nothing compared to the puddles I leave! And, if you haven't noticed by the male reactions on this thread, there are plenty of guys who find it incredibly sexy that you are that comfortable with yourself to reach those levels of sexuality... The ones who have a problem with it generally just need to grow up & learn a bit more about human sexuality!
