That when a man cums, he feels the need to announce it to me, as if I must prepare for a Grand Finale of some sorts?
I love when my husband tells me he's about to, I think it's super hot! I tell him when I am too. He loves it.
i tell my fiancee im about to cum as a common courtesy...usually once a guy cums its over for a while so its good to give a heads up so the female can finish before you do
I've always thought about it that way too. Always thought women love hearing it,like it's their last chance to get off. I know I love hearing it from a woman. I've never heard a woman complain or ask to not hear it. Of course,unless the guy sounds like a tool when saying it,lol.
I agree with the others when they say "it's hot" because it is....I love knowing that he can't hold back anymore.
We tell you so you have time to brace yourself for the impact. LOL Seriously, I dunno why, but I do it to my girlfriend, so it must just be a guy thing if others do it.
I think it's hot depending on the guy and how he says it. Sometimes it's all I can do to hold back the laughter. I sometimes love it when I can just feel him inside me and his breathing gets faster and he just moans to me... I think I have to go change my panties now.
The breathing and noises certainly aid in the experience, but I agree. Something about the way guy's say, "I'm about to cum", has me choking back laughter. I am always half tempted to reply with, "Congratulations, Would you like a golden star sticker?"
I've never said "I'm going to come" in my life. Honest. At that point, I'm not terribly verbal, so it would probably come out "Habba bab mabba habba!" But no woman has ever had to wonder. I may not be verbal, but I am vocal, and she can tell well before the event from how I sound. This whole macho, stoic in bed bullshit is just that. Why would anyone ever want their partner NOT to know how crazy they are making you? And since I just read Dances in Pajamas response, I thing I'll go change as well.
