I love doin it, the taste, smell, her pleasure, the whole experience, it just gets me going, even if its little more than a hot kiss down there. So other dudes, ladies, ya'll dig it that much? Of course, Life has given me a dilemma. My fiance doesn't like it. And it ain't just me. Between her stories and experience between us and many swinging friends of great skill, I'm sure she hasn't had a good experience. Maybe not bad, according to her, but not so great. I'm considering a magic bean or cannabis fueled erotic adventure to explore her, and she seems down with it. hooray for sensual substances, tantra, and all that jazz! So, any ideas? Special 9th degree Tongue-fu black belt tricks? Ancient Illuminati secrets?
Its not your skill thats going to matter-you sound experienced enough. Make her comfy. If she doesnt itll be crap for her again. The weed will probably help.
87% of American men, in a survey couldn't identify the clitoris on a digram of a vagina. lol Your problem? Really, if you know what you're doing and she still doesn't like it I don't think Marijuana will really change it for her.
A BI chick I once went out with taught me Work the Clit. Kiss her inner thighs gently. Look up at her face once in awhile. Let her know you enjoy her as much as she does you. Get Intimate with her.
Oh dear god, how could you not looooove being eaten out? I know I love it more than sex sometimes. Work your way down softly. Like, go down on her by kisses and tease her by kissing her everywhere but the clit at first. Then go for it, and use your fingers. Hope she likes it
I love it more than anything else, but my boyfriend won't do it! Sheesh. I'm workin' on him...when he gets the courage to do it he owes me big time!
I am very sorry to hear that your fiancee does not like receiving oral sex. I know this won't sound welcome, but I really think you should reconsider whether you should marry her. I am the same way about oral sex -- for me it's more like I'm worshiping her, and I love it, I love giving a girl pleasure in that most intimate way -- and I could not last long in a relationship with a girl who simply didn't groove on it. I don't know if this can even come down to "doing it better" and getting her to like it as a result. What's this about "many swinging friends of great skill"? Are you saying that you have friends who have tried eating your fiancee's pussy, and they had no luck at making her like it either? Look, if it's important to you, and you marry her, you are consigning yourself to forever NOT get the satisfaction of giving her oral pleasure. Are you ready to do that? I know I could not. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Why are you spending time on a boyfriend who won't go down on you? It's obvious you want it, but he won't accommodate you... This is a boyfriend worth your love? Sounds like he's a bit inconsiderate, ungenerous, and self-absorbed. He has no problem accepting oral from you? I can't help but compare myself to the boyfriends I read about and hear about and in so many cases (all of them? ) I come out on top -- I'm giving, loving, affectionate, and there's nothing sexual I won't do. Then I read about girls who want oral sex from a guy and he won't give it to them, and I'm like, "yet he's got the girl, and I don't..." Makes no sense. Maybe girls who aren't getting what they want should kick these bums out and start lookin' again, and then they'd fine me. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Thanks for your concern Jeffrey! I do enjoy it, but it's not like a necessity...I can live without mayo on my sandwich! It's not like it's never going to happen, and when it does it'll be worth the wait. He's not self-absorbed or any of the things you said, he's just nervous and new to it all.
