What do you do when one partner is extremely impulsive and the other is extremely organised and likes to know what theyre doing
Hard situation to be in....and I agree with what has been said. Either you find a middle ground that works for both people or you find a new partner.
I'll tell you what happened to me, I also became lazy and compulsive, in response to my inability to keep my things organized with someone who is not at all. Of course, it's different when you live together.