Guys Pls helppppp give me some advice...

Hi, Pls help to give some of ure opinion. Im totally lost in this situation.

Jane and Amy known this guy for almost the same time. For some period of time, guy and Amy quite close together, always seen together everywhere as they are going to the same religious organization.

The guy also gave flower & went out for dinner on valentine day to Amy.

Then Jane went holiday for about couple weeks. Once Jane back from holiday, she felt that guys’ reaction towards her bit diff. He tried to give hint that he cares and gv more attention, as well as try to find ways to meet up. At the same time, other people could see (in that organization) that guy and Amy not as close as before.

Jane and guys doesn’t go to the same religious organization, they only meet up when there is a class.

What do u think of this situation guys?
Is the guy actually get rejected by the girl and moving forward to Jane?
But if he does, isn’t it that he needed time to recover from rejection?

Or he realize that the one he likes is actually Jane and not that much on Amy?

The guy and Amy still talks, but don’t looks as close as before.

Please help, as im totally lost in this situation..

Much appreciated

 

I think its time for girl C

 

I think it's all about ADD in Threads.

 

I think it goes like this:

A B C D E F G .....no wait...

Awww fuck it. That guy has ADD for sure, he can't even.....look at that armadillo.....

 

I honestly think he's interested in Jane and no longer interested in Amy, but honestly if he's that confused, Ithinkhe should spend some time alone imho.

 

English not is your first of language?

 

so sorry for the confusion guys...

you're right, english is not my mother language.

i get confused my self when writting this post.

hard for me to explain into words.

But the main point is,
i felt his reaction diff after back from holiday.
try to be closer, mentioned special frendz, say he misses me, asking out,etc.

Actually I just would like to know if u guys think he got rejected by other girl and switch his "action" to me.

cause i find it strange when a guy could switch his "affection" so fast into other girl.

Was this situation (where a guy can switch his fast affection into other girl) is a normal situation?

Usually a person need time to recover rite?

thanks very very much for all the advice.

 

It is hard telling. It doesn't take long at all to get over someone you realized you don't care about. Can't say for sure, you either take the risk or not.

 

Actually the main point is,
Jane felt guy’s reaction diff after back from holiday.
try to be closer, mentioned special frendz, say the guy misses her, asking out,etc.

Actually Jane just would like to know if u guys think he got rejected by other girl and switch his "action" to Jane.
As Jane know he used to be close with this girl before.

Isnt it strange when a guy could switch his "affection" so fast into other girl.

Will ths situation normal to a guy?

The biggest problem that Jane faced is that she scared the guy was playing "nice" between the two girls.

Jane lost her trust to that guy and unsure if his reaction is genuine.

Before holiday, the guy sometimes (more than 2 times) cancelled or even coming late to the appointment made without any calls or sms. Thats why Jane hv a negative impression on the guy.

but after holiday, he shows that he misses her, be more caring n attentive, call special frendz, wants to meet up, etc.

this is the actual problem tht Jane faced. She is unsure if she has to gv a chance for that guy again.

so... any idea y his behaviour suddenly changed?

You guys can assume I am Jane

Thank You soo much for all advice.

 

most of your questions i can't try to answer becasue i can't understand everything your saying but i want to help, i think i understand parts of it

Rejection is very possible maybe the other girl was semi -serious he got rejected moved on to you

he could of just playing both sides got burned by the other girl, and tried with you

guys can switch affection really fast, maybe he did like you but he thought that he had a better chance with the other girl, so when you left he took it as a chance to try something, he fails come to you very reasonable ask you freind the girl if anything happened

best case for you is he didn't know how much he liked you untill you left and now wants to treat you better and likes you more, don't be to hard on him, build into it slowly see how much he really likes you, guys are like that, i know i sometimes am