Help me out, please...

Damn I have have to agree with The Camper on this one too. Listen to the women. Reading your story renewed my spirit of romance even more as I too am alot like you. We know how treat and respect women. Alot of guys are asshole and it does confuse me why chicks stay around with them as long as they do. Maybe it's because of a poor self image they have of themselves and all the hurt and pain that they've suffered in the lifetimes. I think she is finishing her business with jerkbob. We just have to think that don't we Butters ? Stay the course and learn a great lesson/lessons here brother . Keep me posted if you have time....
Peace&Love
Paul

 

Hey all, thanks for teh advice, its really helping me through it all

As for the astrology question...we're both Taurus's...her b-day is just a few days apart from mine....if that answers anything at all...

 

Ask OleFlowerMan, he's the one who seems to know everything about astrology. I think if you meet someone with the same sign as you then it's just like having a relationship with yourself. I don't know. Although I guess it does depend what sex you are. It should work out.

 

Taurus Taurus can be very good....there's aaaaallott worse matches fur sure

 

That can actually be very HOT my man

 

Awww crap, wait, she's a Gemini actually....so is that bad?

 

Ha Ha Ha, I don't know...

 

Taurus is stable, grounded and steady - qualities that Gemini lacks and feels both drawn to and impatient with sometimes. Taurus is intrigued by and respects Gemini's wit, mental agility and intelligence, but is sometimes annoyed with Gemini's inability to make a commitment or to follow through on intentions.

Gemini likes to talk and can jump rapidly from one topic to the next in rapid succession. Taurus on the other hand, lakes to methodically digest one topic at a time, and quickly gets "mental indigestion" from Gemini's fast-paced conversation. When faced with an important decision, for example, Taurus would benefit by taking a quiet walk in the woods or along the beach, while Gemini needs to talk with someone. You must learn to respect each other's different styles, or you will certainly get in each other's way.

The major difference between you is that Gemini needs a lot of mental stimulation, and enjoys change and movement, while Taurus is much more deliberate, and slow to move or change. Taurus feels unhappy if asked to make frequent adjustments in routines or in the home environment, while Gemini is likely to feel restless or stifled if things stay the same for too long. Domestic tranquility and security are very important to Taurus who is much more stable and even-tempered than Gemini.

Loyalty, constancy, and commitment come more naturally to Taurus while Gemini is reluctant to be completely committed, emotionally.

Taurus is also a more sensual and instinctive person that Gemini who is emotionally more mental, aloof and expressive. Taurus may be unable to articulate the reasons for an opinion or stance, yet be unwilling to budge from it. Taurus' stubbornness and slowness to embrace new experiences can be very trying to Gemini. But Taurus emotional steadiness and nurturing qualities are also very appealing to Gemini.

Taurus may sometimes feel that Gemini lives in a fantasy world too much. Taurus also needs a lot more touching and physical closeness than Gemini at times.

Taurus enjoys long and pleasant hours of sexual expression and some may be stimulated by using sex aids and movies. Taurus' style is not flamboyant and may at times lean towards conservatism. On the other hand, Gemini tends to get bored with the same old sexual routine, enjoys exciting new techniques and trying new methods. This combination can at times, kill sexual spontaneity and make both partners concentrate on performance rather than pleasure. Gemini's' sexual needs are not necessarily as strong as Taurus.

Neither of you is particularly conventional, nor are you great lovers of rules and formal traditions for their own sake, but Gemini is apt to have a much harder time conforming, and may in fact openly scorn or rebel against such limitations. There is apt to be a great deal of change, constant motion, fluctuating circumstances, and disorganization in Gemini's life, whereas Taurus embraces necessary changes and flows with them but doesn't help Gemini learn how to be true to oneself and one's own beliefs and nature without needing to always rail against "the establishment" or "the system".

A dynamic, aggressive exchange of ideas, planning, and decision-making is such a strong part of your relationship that you will either become rivals or partners - you cannot maintain an indifferent attitude to someone that challenges and stimulates your ideas so strongly. If you are able to coordinate and harmonize your ideas, you will study, research, invent, plan, and write together very successfully.

Although there is a great deal of fascination, curiosity, and attraction between you, there is also a lack of stability and peace. You react to each other very impulsively. Your feelings for each other blow hot and cold. It may seem like you are either making love or arguing with each other, going from one extreme to another. This relationship could easily turn into a love/hate relationship, where you simultaneously feel irresistibly drawn to each other, but you also irritate each other and make each other feel very uncomfortable. To make this relationship work, you both must be very flexible, tolerant or shortcomings in each other, adaptable to the constant changes and upsets, and enjoy excitement, novelty, and surprises. In this relationship there is never a dull moment! From MiltonBlack.com

Peace&Love
Paul OFM

 

Hang in there Brother; but take it slow and easy. Don't rush a thing or you might regret it. She needs a little time...never healthy to jump from one relationship right into another. You can fall into rebound that way. Besides she needs time to figure herself out anyway. Be there for her, be her friend and above all listen to her. If it is meant to be...it will happen!

If your feeling pretty wierd about your feelings try writing your feelings down on paper or your pc. Has always helped me and hey...you might find out something about yourself in the process.

 

I'm a Bull and my experience with Geminis are they ALWAYS have two things going on at the same time. The Twins are a Crowd.
BTW I'm not dissing you Butters-you just remind me of myself and I feel your going to get screwed big time in this relationship.
I hope i'm wrong and wish you the best.

 

Yeah Butters.. knowing that we know what you know now... the Bull you are and Deuce babe that she is will probably bring ya more suffering than joy. And us Bulls aren't that good at just fuckin em and forgettin em are we Drew ? We're just to sincere and sensitive for that...Keep us posted dude

 

Just thought I'd put in an update.....as of last night, we are now officially in a relationship, and she seems to me to be completely ready for it now. She just needed some time for herself for a little while I think, but things are great now, couldn't be better. She drove to see me all this weekend, and just left maybe 15 minutes ago. Just thought I'd let you all know....wish me luck! haha

 

Hey, thats fucking awesome man. I'm so happy for you. And good luck.

 

Hey buddy, it's great to see ya again, been awhile. Sounds like things are finally working out your way, I hope everything falls into place, you deserve it.

Best wishes, man, I think you'll make each other very happy.

 

Hehe, thanks guys. I've been waiting for someone like her for a long time now...things couldn't be better. She is about 2 and a half hours away from me, so it will be a long distance thing, but we've handled it fine for 3 months now, so theres no reason to believe that can't continue. I think it is good that it took some time to get to this state, because we have the 3 months built between us, so its not like we just jumped right into something. We have a good foundation built already, so this should work out...I hope anyways. She's amazing, and I couldn't be happier

 

Hey jammin brother...it's so wierd...Check out my thread in Relationships entitled "What's it mean"....I cant' believe you two are 2.5 hours from each other too.. Me and my Love too. LOL Crazy Love, huh? But mine a little freakin right now... Help me back ...

So more Peace&Love to you man.

Pauul