It has been a fantasy for a long time and we both have watched the other have sex with others without any jealousy. This had led to our fantasy play and thoughts about swinging or having an open marraige, where we could have sex with others, then share it with each other. We are in a situation where we both entertain various vendors and customers. We have teased each other many times about the hot guys that my wife would love to get her hands on and all of the women who I would love to get at. At this point in our life, we both think that we could enjoy and benefit from some exciting safe play with others. Have any other couples enjoyed expanding their sexual horizons like this? Did you bring others into your bed, enjoy the swinging lifestyle, or did you have individual encounters?
Been there..done that LONG ago...you just have to be carefull, theres a lot of emotions involved Including the people you bring in ! Good luck to you !!!
While open marriages do work in some cases you might want to seriously think about it. An option might be to become part of a swingers club, and keep the playing in that circle. I would also suggest that you keep it out of your bedroom. It is important that you and your wife still maintain a relationship in your space. There is a lot that you and your wife need to discuss BEFORE you start an open relationship. Don't make the mistake of jumping into an open marriage and then say "well I didn't know" when something happens. Make sure you both agree with what will and won't be allowed. Good luck
