okay, in 8th grade there was this girl, that i liked a lot, and i asked her out 4 times and got rejected each time, and so after that i gave up on looking for a girl. now after 2 years of not trying to get anyone, im talking to this girl again, and we're really connecting and i find myself falling in love with her again, and shes in a situation where she gave up on the kid she likes, and is having some problems with her ex, and im comforting her a lot. and id like so ask her out again to be my girlfriend, but i dont wanna get heart broken again. what do i do?
if you are comforting her then she is veiwing you more as a "friend" i take it .....i would not get obsessed with her ....and if you think this is a good time to ask her out it could back fire for you big time.......sometimes its best to just move on.....
Here's some of the best real-world advice you're ever going to get! I'd come straight out and tell her that you don't wanna be "just a friend", you wanna date her. Women only date guys with the balls to ask them out in the first place. The only way for you to leave the "friend zone" is by gathering the courage and confidence to place YOURSELF in the "boyfriend zone". Why do nice guys always end up being friends? Because they don't show their masculine, assertive, confident selves to girls. Instead nice guys cop out and let the girl decide what she wants from him... which is ALWAYS a friend. Girls are attracted to men who take charge and are willing to put themselves on the line, not to their really nice friends. And when you DO ask her out, don't be all sweet and emotional... be more of a bad boy. Don't tell her she's nice and smart, tell her she's hot and sexy. Tell her that she has got what you like and you won't wait another moment to get it. Then kiss her confidently and grab her butt. And if it doesn't work out with this girl, keep at it. Don't be the eternal "friend," putting in hours and years of time into a girl that will never want you to kiss her. Be the confident bad boy that gets under her skin. And date lots of girls! The more girls you date, the more confident you will be, and the more girls will want you! Oh... and make sure you brush your teeth, wear deodarant & cologne, and treat any acne on your face. Also, take up a sport... girls LOVE men who play sports!
I say go for it life is short...If you get rejected well, shit happens theres nothing else you can do. Atleast you tryd and know the answer.
