Ok guys , to start this off.... lol im sorta a flurty guy and this gets me into trouble well now i need help from some of you experenced lovaaahhs. I know this girl , who really likes me... but i dont like her back , i sorta see her as a younger sister i have to protect. Shes really innocent , and cute and niec but i just dont like her back the problem is sometimes i try to protect her feelings saying stuff i dont mean which gives her back a signal that maybe i like her? Today i told her i wanted to be friends then she got upset and as STUPID as i am i said "Like i really like you , i just want to get to know you better" giving her more hope...and now i kinda feel REALLY bad becasue we went to the movies and she was trying to tickle me and stuff and talking in high pitched voices... :S what ever that means... and i just dont know how to tell her i want to be friends ... i UNDERSTAND its my falt but i just dont like her in the way she thinks...and i dont wanna hurt her feelings because recently she broke up with her bf because he cheated on her... like normaly i WOULD fool around with her but i just dont really wanna hurt her... any advice
Just drop something like "Man, you're like the little sister I never had" or something like that. It'll suck for her, but it's not super confrontational which is good for her.
And why don't you like this girl? She's giving you the tickling lovins yo. What are all them other bitches gonna give you? NOTHING, they're gonna tease your dick yo. I think you should digging this chick. No, I'm just kidding. Well actually I'm not. I guess it really just depends what all the other girls are like that go to your school. Do you know exactly why your not attracted to her?
Wow, sorry to hear that man. Just tell her, like ihmurria said. It will hurt at first no matter how you say it, but she'll understand in time. And if you explain that you are trying not to hurt her too badly, your friendship hopefully will remain intact.
You've already gotten good advice, but for future reference, don't lead girls on like that. It'll only end up hurting them when you flirt and say things like that, and then drop the 'like a sister' or 'just friends' line. And don't fool around with her out of sympathy. That'll put you into a whole new world of 'Oh shit. What do I do?'
