morning sickness/emotional distress/unplanned pregnancy

A very dear old friend of mine is in a state of great emotional distress over an unplanned pregnancy. She is thinking seriously of ending it. I'm trying to be supportive and good to her whatever she decides. My job in the situation is first and formost as her friend. (And please, everyone reading this, remember that I am not her, nor do i want this to become an abortion discussion) I'm worried about her because she already lives far from me, and at the moment is on a trip away from her home. She doesn't know anyone where she is, doesn't have a doctor there, and won't be home for two weeks. She's really freaking out, and I could tell from talking to her that she's emotionally and physically wrought.

I don't know what to do for her, I'm worried, and I love her so much I wish I could be there for her. I know that she really just needs a friend, and someone to hold her hair and rub her back. But I can't do that. Is there anything, herbs or medicine or anything at all, that might help with her all-day morning sickness and help her sleep soundly so that she can at least feel better and be rational while making this important life decision?

I don't have much experience on this front, but I want to be a good friend.

 

Papaya mint chewables help with queasy stomach. (As does herb in severe situations where prescription medications cannot be got).

And calcium before bed helps you sleep.

 

I wish your friend well. These may help with the morning sickness.


http://www.threelollies.com/

 

Sea sickness bands are always a good thing

 

I have a pregnant friend who swears by Ginger capsules. She tried all those heavy duty prescriptions, but said nothing helped but ginger. I woud also have her eat crackers in the morning,before she really gets oob. I have heard this helps too.

 

Saltine crackers if she eats those, or pretzels help curb nausea, so she should keep some on hand. Also, protein, so if she puts some peanut butter on the crackers, that might help.

Mint works really well for upset tummies, although for me, during my twin pregnancy, the pretzels and peanut butter seemed to stop my queasiness moreso for some reason.

As far as the emotional roller coaster, that tends to be present throughout most pregnancies, planned or not! Lots and lots of mixed emotions, fears, overwhelming thoughts. The best thing you can do is be there as a friend for her to talk about them.

{{{Hugs}}}

 

If she is pregnant, whether she is going to end it or not, she will need either medical or midwivery care. Especially, if she is having such a hard time already. There is always Public Aid and a Medical Green Card, if she has no money.

As for meds: Compazine or Zofran.........Better living through chemistry, especially if the alternative is puking your guts up. Both are safe. Zofran is safer, but more expensive.


I hope she finds a way to feel better.