first love is hell

i am really, truely in love for the 1st time, and so is my significant other. but with sooo many emocions and firsts that come with it, that by the way have never surfaced & probally never would have unless you were in love.....its truely hard and a real emocional rollercoaster

 

i totally completely agree...but it's probably all worth it, though we wouldn't know

 

First loves are EVIL to get over. I'm not sure if you ever do ...

 

First love is the best though...you are innocent in it all and arent tainted by any past relationships. You fall very hard and everything is so emotional. Im currently with my first love its been a year and i love him more than anything..but we have had quite a ride so far...i think its all worth it though <3. peace and love

 

I've been in a number of relationships ranging from very serious long-term commitments to passionate summer romances. I've fallen in love with someone recently - and more intensely than anything I've felt before - and come to this conclusion:

Every love is first love.

Sound crazy? Every day is a new day - the earth turns once and creeps a little further around the sun like every other day, but everything we experience during that time is unique. I can barely remember my first love now, there have been a few since, but this current one is stronger than any before and I'm still as uncertain of what I'm doing as I was when I was 14. It's a bit like a tattoo - some people develop an addiction and have dozens of the things, but they're never just routine; each one is a new expression of something within the person.

 

Yes, people absolutely do get over their first loves. Not all, but there certainly are those who have. I have. I look back and thank god, I'm no longer with said person. He's changed for the worse. So much that it's embarassing and disappointing to see such a downward spiral. Emotionally, I'm aghast I ever felt remotely romantic towards him. Unbelievable.

 

My first love just ended (well a month ago or so) yepp, it was hell.

 

im so glad this didnt happen to me. Love is easy to come by but hard to end so you gotta set that limit in the middle.

 

hmmmmmmm

 

My first love was the best thing that ever happened to me and the hardest thing to get over.

 

I agree with u, when your in love everything is great, but it is so hard to get over.

 

Don't think I've ever really been in love for any length of time... well maybe... once, a long time ago... look forward to it though! Am I too late

 

Im with my first love now. We are together for 9 months and I love more than everything. I hope this will never stop

 

i'm with my first love right now too. when i was with other guys in the past i always said i loved them and everything. but when i met nick, i just knew it! i knew i was absolutely in love with him and all of the "loves" i had before weren't really loves at all.

 

Yea same for me only we broke up about 2 months ago after a year.
Hate to tell you this but if you really love him, it will be the WORST thing you have ever had to go thru if/when you break up. Seriously its so hard. I nearly did things i would regret now when we broke up, im glad i hung in there though. It will take months of getting over, and in those months you feel like life is meaningless and (for me) my self confidence took a huge hit. I cant begin to tell you how bad it is to go thru. Lets just say, for me she was the BEST experience of my life but she also caused the WORST experience of my life. I have actually lost faith in love, its not worth the pain at the end of it all.

I just want you to know a little bit about how bad it is if/when you break up, especially if its you who is dumped for someone new. You feel used if that happens (like it did for me).

Anyway i hope you enjoy all the time you have with your boyfriend, some of the times with my first love were and still are the best times in my life, so cherish every moment with him and have fun.

 

All good things come to an end im afraid. Though some endings are easier than others.

 

Nothing lasts forever, smile while you cry

 

I fell in love for the first time with the first girl i ever slept with and our really painfull relationship went off and on for 12 years. Five years ago we got back together, moved in to live together. At the time she was with another guy, his name was jack. She dumped him immediately to get back with me. She was the first girl I ever slept with.

Now after five years we have broken up for good. Just before our break up she started doing another guy, she broke it off with me exactly the same was she did with jack. A few days later, while standing in line at the store, a girl walked past me and looked me in the eye. A few seconds later I realised it was a girl for whom I was the first she ever slept with.

What is love? is it feeling or action? if we never figure it out, the end of this life still gets closer every day.

 

that's really depressing, but thanks for sharing. i hope nick and i are together forever. he means so much to me. we're both really young, but i don't think that matters. he's my first love and i hope he's my last as well.

 

i don't even know if i've ever "loved" somebody...