This isn't like a pressing issue that eats me up inside or anything...

But I figure, it's 7 am, I haven't been to sleep yet, I haven't posted here in a while, and I'm bored so I'll get some peoples opinion on this


I'm "bi-sexual", I really just have no sexual preference and find both genders attractive.

A few people know about this, mostly people I rarely see in real life but am very close friends with (Friends that I know in real life but mostly talk to online because they live 40+ minutes away). I don't think I should bother telling any friends of mine who would think of me differently, or would joke about it, because it's just not worth the hassle and it's none of their business anyways.

It just means that I'll have to go out of my way to be manlier, so I don't get called a fairy, so why bother? I'm not looking to fuck any of them anyways, so there's no reason I should bother telling them right?

What do you think?

 

Advice : Go sleep some first!


I'm not Bi, so I really can't help, sorry!

Goodluck!
Peace..

 

i think uve just answered ur own question lol

 

You shouldn't feel the need to hide your sexuality from them, if they really are 'freinds'. If you're worried about them thinking of you differently, or giving you a hard time bout it...then that means that they must not be the greatest friends in the world - so why worry about potentially losing them if they start to be asses about it? Friends are a dime a dozen, doll...you should find some that will care about you no matter what, and could care less if you're part fairy! One of the biggest foundations on friendship should be respect...so if it does get to them that you're bisexual and they can't take it, they don't respect you for who you are and therefore aren't worthy of YOUR respect and friendship. There's no point in living a lie to prevent criticism or ridicule from your own friends...in the end, it may happen anyway. If you don't tell them - cool, but don't change anything about yourself. Stay true to who you are, and let them figure it out.

Peace and much love.

 

I agree with MissyD
you did answer your own questions.
you have a firm grasp of reality. follow your own head and you'll be fine

 

i understand exactly what you're going through. people are so cruel with their assumptions and lables. why does anyone have to decide and label their sexuality. sometimes its a real struggle, especially when there really isn't anyone that knows or to which you can talk to. you're not alone in this struggle. maybe we could talk sometime. i understand in so many ways. if you're not living with it, then you can't understand it.

 

Faygoluvers.net?

Hmm... well if so i'm glad we all have two sides, if not then don't sweat it. We all have a right to live, so live it how you want to. Fuck the rest.

Good luck to you man... cheers