Okay so, how about this: is it more of a turn on or less if a guy asks you during oral sex, plus other foreplay like kissing your breasts, touching you, etc... do you like this? How is that? For me, with a girl, that's fantastic. It tells me she cares and also leaves her in the know about what works for me. During oral sex for instance... "what do you like" is a pretty dynamite question. But i've got this fear that if i ask this question during sex, it will somehow be a turn off. I wouldn't do it in a clinical wierd way, take out a clipboard and make notes, or otherwise break the mood... but even so... i wonder if a guy asking you "is this how you like it? what do you like? how about this?" would be a good thing in your opinion. I would find it unfair if i revealed the information that gives her the power to turn me into a helpless bundle of erotic bliss... but she didn't want to give that power in return. I also find it unfair, and i've encountered a female like this, when she assumes a guy should "just know". p.s. i think this is a good thing to do even after i've been with someone for a while and know that she likes me to nibble on her breasts, or the inside of her legs. Things change and it doesn't hurt to check in. Keeps things fresh. Thank you. And thanks to all who participated in my last question. It was most enlightening.
yes/no questions are far less daunting than general, open-ended "what do you like" ones (particularly when just exploring others body's, don't wanna scare a partner off for being a little peculiar in my likes/dislikes). Depends on the tone used, the question asked. Try to read my body language and moans first (since I try to be rather vocal even if I can't quite form words)
Yup, i hear that. I'm not typically very vocal during sex. I'm sensitive to noise and sound, so the sound of my voice distracts me. So i don't tend to talk much. I can if she likes me to, though, and "what do you like?" is just a fabulous question that i don't mind answering, anytime. Thanks.
didn't your mother ever teach you that its rude to talk with your mouthful? seriously though i prefer talking as opposed to just doing it.
Sometimes, I want to talk after sex, and other times, I'm content to just gaze in my lover's eyes. As for talking during sex, depends on the mood. I can be pretty quiet, at least as far as talking goes, or I can be kinda kinky ( :X ) at times. Depends on alot of things.
i hate the talking all the time, yeah i like to let the blokes know im satisfied, but they should be able to tell. i don't know a women who asks her man everytime, so y do blokes? xxx
