cant "do it" on top!

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by godonlyknows, Aug 8, 2006.

  1. godonlyknows

    godonlyknows Member

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    me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a while now, but for some reason we cant do it with her on top.
    she likes 2 watch porn with me to get her in the mood for sex and whenever a couple are having sex in that position she always says 'i really wish we could do it like that'. so do i! but it just wont go in without hurting her.
    its irritating because its such a standard position loads of people do, and we really wanna do it but it just doesnt go.
    a while back i tried fingering her (just my middle finger) while she was on her knees and fuck me it was tight. so tight i cud never imagine fitting my dick in there!
    is this normal? has anyone else had this problem before? howd u fix it if you did?! cheers [​IMG]
     
  2. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    how much does she weigh?
     
  3. godonlyknows

    godonlyknows Member

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    uhh i dunno mate, she aint fat if thats wat u mean. she aint skinny eitha. shes a uk size 10-12 which is average. maybe like 120-30 lbs?
     
  4. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    if she rides on top facing you and it hurts, try her riding on top facing away from you....or vice versa...
     
  5. Vanilla_Cream

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    If you are implying something there about weight,I hate to tell you this,but bigger women can ride on top too.Actually the bigger gals I know find this position pretty easy.Weight has nothing to do with it.

    It sounds like your girl is just a little tight...you mentioned her size is around 10 or so,well I am an 11 and I am not fat,nor skinny...I am average and have no problems with being on top.

    How long have you guys been having sex?? Does it hurt her in any other position?
     
  6. dynzee

    dynzee Banned

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  7. GlydeMaura

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    Lubricant! Lubricant! Lubricant! Lube is your friend!

    Go to the sex shop (or pharmacy) and get some lubricant. When you have sex with your girl, first apply a few tablespoons to her outer lips and inside her vagina, apply some lube to your penis, and then try the position. Sometimes all it takes is a little extra lube to make sex comfortable!
     
  8. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    Maybe you just need to do it more often!
     
  9. darkangel

    darkangel Member

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    are you serious? a few tablespoons of lube? god i would have thought that if you needed that much then you dont want sex!!! while lube can make some things better, too much and you feel absolutely nothing, so what would be the point of doing it? if you use too much when on top you will just fall out all the time and end up hurting him or yourself as you cant feel when hes about to come out of you and then if you come to hard down on him and he bends the wrong way, do i have to explain more!!!!!
     
  10. GlydeMaura

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    Lots of people think that a woman will continue to produce copious amounts of natural lubricant during sex, but things CAN get dry every now and then! If sex is uncomfortable for a woman, or if the man simply can't slide in, then lubricant is required! And it has NOTHING to do with arousal or desire for sex... just like sometimes men are aroused but their penises remain flacid, women can be aroused but not produce enough lubricant.

    And of course, one can ALWAYS have too much of a good thing. Too much lube is as difficult to manage as not enough. At least with lube, you can wipe off the excess with a towel, face cloth, or moist wipe. I'm sure the people involved will use however much works for them.
     

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