hi, A few months ago I met a really cute girl while i was with some friends, we started to talk and then we became really good friends. About 3 weeks ago she asked me out and she keeps saying that she loves me and i really love her too but i always think and feel that she doesnt really mean it. I mean, the problem is that she lives far away from me and we only see each other once a week so i often think that she is with another guy or something like that. Last saturday she invited me to go and meet her parents which was rlly cool and we almost ended up having sex in a park after that, she was really nice to me and stuff but i still cant get it out of my head, she tells me that she wouldnt do anything like that (cheating) but i still think about it that she will and thats what starts the arguments with her. im really desperate for help, plz help me. thanks
you have to figure out why you don't trust her. If you can't learn to overcome why, you will never have a full, healthy relationship with her.
My m8 was in a similar situation where she was in a long distance relationship with a guy that lived an hour and a half away from her and he used to hate it wen she went out 2 partys with us because he culdnt trust her wen she was drinking and take it from me, shes actually really a repsonsible drinker but i culdnt tell him any different and now they dont go out any more......anyway, i suggest if u really like this girl, trust her. If u still think sumthing is going wrong after you'v tried trusting her then ask 1 of her m8z to tell u honestly about whats going on.
Thanks for the responses, i been like this with every relationship i had and bein like this is really bothering me. She is a wonderful girl and i love her a lot but i guess im too paranoid or something. thanks
Trust is the backbone of any relationship! It sounds like you don't feel worthy which is why you are afraid she is going to cheat or you have been shit on before. Either way it is you, you have to get to look at things differently. If she has never given you a reason to think she is cheating don't invent things in your head as they will eat you up. take things one day at a time being like that will only drive her away in the end as she will feel you don't trust her or love her really. Having freinds of the oppisite sex is completely different then having a boyfriedn or husband. I have many male friends and they are nothing more then friends and never will be. Love & Advice EnonEmouse
that rlly helps...thanks i rlly want to make her the happiest girl alive, any advise how can i do that?
