men's disgusting obsession...

xthevalkyriex · Jul 11, 2004

I'm glad I missed the original post.

Disarray · Aug 17, 2004

Phrivolous said:

I've told him that it bothers me and that i don't like it, but it still comes up a lot. I know that guys like it because it's a girls body and its thrilling or something, but i guess i was just trying to figure out: why the face? because i've watched pornos and i know that's where he got the idea in the first place, and they do it in such a mean way. maybe i just wish i could jizz on his face too?? oh well :H

BTW it's a control issue because i can't do it back to him.
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Well, you can; if you're able to squirt. Ha! Then you could hover over his face...

moonshyne · Aug 17, 2004

I fail to see why this is really an issue. If you don't like it, then don't let him do it. And if he's dick enough to keep bitching about it, leave his ass.

P.S. Spitting is disgusting, and a little childish, IMHO. But you know, if you're gonna spit on him, at least make it worth the effort. Wait until you have a big mouthful of his goo and then let it drizzle on HIS face. If he doesn't like it, ask him why the hell he thinks you would.

ArtistofPeace · Aug 19, 2004

Phrivolous said:

I'm glad your so relaxed about it. I need to be more easy going i guess. Refrigerator drawings, thats awesome. but still, for some reason it's like an itch under my skin.... ahhhh. I guess it makes me mad that i can't do anything back to him.

(Actually i did something one time. He came on my chest, so i rolled over and spat on his. He got really pissed off and said, "that was uncalled for")

what the hell? haha
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That's really really shitty. You spat on his chest? As in...to get him back for cumming on you? What...the fuck? You really need to be more open. If you don't like it, then I guess you just have to tell him straight out. But seriously...sex is supposed to be fun and experimental. When you're with someone you love, boundaries are eliminated, inhibitions are gone...you go with the flow. It must be shitty to have a partner who gets so disgusted with something like you do...to the point where you feel you have to "get him back" for it. That's just fucking wrong. I would feel like such shit if someone did that to me...

I can't speak from a guy's point of view. I don't know if it's a power trip or what-have-you. But it's damn hot, and this is coming from a girl's point of view. I enjoy it, but then again, I just have a profound love for sex in general. My boyfriend doesn't cum on me to belittle me. He loves and respects me. But that doesn't get rid of the fact that certain things are just really hot. Plus...how about when your boyfriend goes down on you and makes you cum? Does he complain..."I wonder why she likes that so much...?" C'mon now...

Open your mind, let yourself go, and enjoy it. If you really have a problem with it, don't ignore it, but do try to be a bit more open-minded.

rocknroll_girl · Aug 20, 2004

Sorry but this thread is about the equivellent of me asking why women are obsessed with fucking their guy with a strap on. Simply put, some do it, some don't.
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Ha, I would so do that to a guy, particulary some nice gay one I meet in some bar someday. And I'm gayer than all hell myself.

sylvanlightning · Aug 20, 2004

Maggie Sugar said:

There is a LOT of variation in sexual practices. I don't find ejaculate discusting at all, no matter where it ends up. Personally, I don't think a man wanting to cum places other than my yoni disgusting either. It is a matter of personal choice. I don't think men who do like this want to do it out of an idea of oppression, they just like it. Lots of womyn like it too.

If you don't like it, though, you and your man will have to come to an agreement. Does he know how you feel about it? A man shouldn't insist on a sexual practice which makes his womyn feel bad. Sex is supposed to feel good, and you are both supposed to feel good about what you do. If he doesn't understand that you don't want to do this, you both have a lot of work to do.

I know my dh would never try to pressure me into anything sexual I didn't want to do. In the past he as asked a few times for things I didn't want, and a simple, "That doesn't sound good to me." ended it. We have a pretty damn good sex life!!!! There isn't much I don't like, but the few things I don't have never been an issue.

You and your man need to talk when you are NOT in bed. Sex is important, and both people need to be happy and comfortable with what is being done. If he won't talk, or insists on stuff you feel degraded by, then there probaly isn't anything that will change that. DON'T do things that make you feel bad. It will only breed resentment or even fear towards your partner, and that isn't good for either of you.

Sex is supposed to make both of you feel good. Don't consent to something which makes you feel bad.
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I hear your wise words... and you speak as a tantrika... don't usually post here, but, your elegant articulate passage is empowering. Om shanti para-shakti Aum.... Bright Blessings and Namaste. btw have you read "The Alchemy of Love and Sex" if not may it serve you and your partner/s as a resonant key.

sm0key42o8 · Aug 20, 2004

DarkLunacy said:

Sorry but this thread is about the equivellent of me asking why women are obsessed with fucking their guy with a strap on. Simply put, some do it, some don't.
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Why cant i find a girl like that...?

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